true
i just have a guy to impress and... well you know what i'm like by now!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:41, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

You will probably impress him more
if you are cool and calm about your body and not obsessing about it :)
(berk, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:42, Reply)

Cool and calm is the way to go.
But not too cool and calm, else he'll think he's getting the cold shoulder.
(dozers, do fuck off ur a nob m8, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:45, Reply)

whilst you are both right... i don't do cool and calm
or confident. oh dear!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:47, Reply)

Any guy that you are making moves on
Must realise that he's on to a winner.

Moar confidence plz.
(dozers, do fuck off ur a nob m8, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:48, Reply)

^ this

(berk, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:51, Reply)

i must print this out and put it in my wallet
next time some horrible shallow twat makes me feel like shit, this will cheer me right up! xx
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:55, Reply)

Well given it has taken me three years
and surgery to lose 3 dress sizes I think you are doing very - possibly worringly! - well. You are far too harsh on yourself (and if you have any nice sz 12 clothes that need a home I'm always happy to help, hehe)
(berk, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:58, Reply)

i hate the reason i gained any weight in the first place because it's so depressing
and i hate the fact that i let a man depress me so much that i stopped exercising in the first place! now i am enjoying it again, so am probably overdoing it, but it'll settle down, don't worry.

will bear this in mind for when i get down to a size 2....... how is your wardrobe looking for 2027??
( rachelswipe with a fork, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 0:04, Reply)

Well you must be a 12 or smaller now surely
if you've lost two dress sizes? No way were you bigger than that before. And the man situation does sound shit but at least you're rid of him now I guess. And you have potential new ones too!
(berk, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 0:09, Reply)

oh yes
2011 is DEFINITELY onwards and upwards on the man front!

we must sort this ladies night out, maybe a facebook email around the usual suspects...
( rachelswipe with a fork, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 0:11, Reply)

I'm game!
Amberl seems to be moving her Oxford bash to 18th feb though, and TGB has a bash 19th march, then I think both Amberl and Lampito will be at home for easter and not back til end of April...
(berk, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 0:16, Reply)

I'll be in England over Easter it appears
for most of it anyway
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 0:21, Reply)

Maybe he doesn't mind what size you are?
My ex had size issues, and it is impossible to like someone who hates themself.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:52, Reply)