yeah, that's true
more significant if it is a relationship rather than friendship I suspect.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:01, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

it's much much worse if it's a friend you haven't seen for years
you have email chats and think it will be like old times. then you meet them.

and realise you have precisely fuck-all in common any more. this is actually sad, whereas realising that you and some internet clown aren't meant to be together after all is not the end of the world!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:05, Reply)

great seats at the Phil?

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:07, Reply)

I guess so.
I'm really shit at keeping in touch though, so that doesn't come up.

or I do have a lot in common with my old mates. Most of whom live nearby anyway. Although they are spreading. A few have moved to London for some reason. and one to Frankfurt.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:10, Reply)

What's even better
is when you meet up with a friend you think you've not seen for only a few years, you're finishing each other sentences, having a total laugh, and it's not until you get home you realise it's been TEN YEARS since you were in a room together.
And you weren't even 'best' friends to start with.
That was warm and glowy.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:11, Reply)

Although that can be weird when it's with an ex
You talk and laugh and have a great time, then as you walk away you remember things ended for a reason.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:13, Reply)

I had a few occasions like that with an ex of mine
But having to call the police soon reminded me that I was right to end contact.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:18, Reply)

Woooaaahhhh
Thankfully that's not happened to me, just a few guilt trips.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:21, Reply)

WARNING: No matter how bad the guilt trip is, do NOT sleep with them again.
It will cause more shit that it's worth.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:23, Reply)

Do I look like a teenager?
I am very good at recognising when a wank would be a lot less hassle in the long run.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:25, Reply)

And if you've had a drink or 5?

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:27, Reply)

not everyone loses all common sense when pissed

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:32, Reply)

Thank you
I was about to write exactly that.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:33, Reply)

So you're telling me, that if you were single, and a girl you still found attractive was rubbing your crotch, you'd be able to retain composure?
I knew I was making a mistake, but I figured it could be a fun mistake. It was, I didn't suffer any of the backlash!

Although now I think about it, I've slept with all 3 of my serious exes after we've split, hmm...
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:34, Reply)

alright in those circumstances my resolve might falter somewhat

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:41, Reply)

Welcome to the world of adulthood.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:43, Reply)

The police were no match for my parents
who jumped out of the car like Bodie and Doyle (or Cagney and Lacey). My dad even did a bonnet slide. This is funnier when you realise my mum was in her pyjamas with a macintosh and both of my parents are tiny.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:24, Reply)

Haha brilliant!

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:26, Reply)

like "you made me sad and the only way I can ever love again is if you buy me shoes"
See that's why I'm awesome, I only ever demand food. Or hugz. I can haz hugz in oxfordz?
( TGB checking Off Topic is still shit at, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:24, Reply)

You can haz hugz in oxfordz

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Tue 1 Feb 2011, 10:26, Reply)