if one lives with one's other half
and sex may still be great but it's hardly a novelty, then i can see your perspective. just wait til you get home.

but what if it's someone new who excites you so much you can't sit still, but they aren't in the immediate vicinity, and the conversation goes that way... trust me, it's hot.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:10, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

repeated explanation isn't going to help
accept the following:
I know what you mean
I've been in the situation you describe
I still find the whole concept fucking dreadful

this is not because of any lack of fire between us, or a lack of imagination or anything.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:13, Reply)

keep telling yourself that last sentence
repeated explanation might help after all.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:17, Reply)

I imagine you feeling sorry for me at the moment
stuck in my relationship
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:19, Reply)

nah
not at all! just because some people would see what you have as an enviable goal and others as a terrifying trap doesn't mean it's anything other than perfect for you.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:20, Reply)

I honestly couldn't imagine anything better

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:21, Reply)

whereas others feel like scratching their skin off
at the thought of seeing the same face every night and every morning, listening to the same anecdotes about the same work people/job stuff, seeing the same friends in the same pub all the time, having the same routine about shopping and washing and cleaning and joint bank accounts and the same arguments about whose turn it is to buy toilet rolls and...
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:24, Reply)

I had no preconceptions
and am genuinely surprised that none of that stuff matters because of the effect she has on me.

vomit inducing I know, but is the truth.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:26, Reply)

bertie was absolutely right
"it takes all sorts" !
( rachelswipe with a fork, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:28, Reply)

Now the world don't move
To the beat of just one drum.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:32, Reply)

vomit inducing?
*Offers Vipros dads slippers*
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:29, Reply)

you're a gent
but it's other who are likely to need them.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 18 Mar 2011, 14:31, Reply)