this is shit
How formal is your access agreement? While I applaude your desire to deal with this in a personal and non-confrontational way; - wonder if you need to consult some solicitors?
(CheatingRabbit, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 9:34, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

He's been there and done that with no success.

( girlinthehole, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 9:35, Reply)

I have a fixed 3-hour weekly visit that I fought tooth and nail to get.
However now my little girl is older that's no longer sufficient and I want overnight stays at my house. To force this legally would cost thousands (I've spent six I don't have already) - I just cannot afford it, so diplomacy is my only option.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 9:52, Reply)

maybe your ex's objection to you taking your little girl back to your place
has something to do with the presence of the self-medication stuff you mentioned up there^^^

Just saying like, no offence
(tiger blood and Adonis DNA, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 10:04, Reply)

Fuck off Bert.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 11:22, Reply)

whoa, there's no need for language like that
I'm trying to help a brother out, maybe if he cleaned up his act a little...?

It's tricky, that's what it is

It's Trick to rock a rhyme, to rock a rhyme that's right on time
It's Tricky... Tricky Tricky Tricky Tricky
It's Trick to rock a rhyme, to rock a rhyme that's right on time
It's Tricky...Tr-tr-tr-tr-tr-tricky (Tr-Tr-Tr-Tricky) Tr-tr-tr...

We are not thugs we don't use drugs but you assume on your own
They offer coke and lots of dope but we just leave it alone
It's like that y'all (y'all), but we don't quit
You keep on (rock!) shock! Cause this is it...
(tiger blood and Adonis DNA, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 11:31, Reply)

sorry
This is doubly shit...
Diplomacy, the hope that ex will see some kind of sanity and the expectation that your daughter will eventually grasp that wasn't your fault are your weapns
(CheatingRabbit, Mon 18 Apr 2011, 11:20, Reply)