I'm not very lucky as a person
but then most of the stuff can be blamed on me, rather than life. If I wanted a partner I should lose some weight and be slightly quieter, if I wanted a better degree I should've worked for it etc.

Bad stuff probably happens to me a bit more than other people, but I've also been given the ability to cope with it, so I don't feel too awful.

I am glad things are going so well for you though
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:12, 3 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I don't agree much about the partner bit
He should love you despite your weight. And you are not so fat that noone would look at you! C'mon!

I used to have bad luck, and meet all type of weird people. Recently I just think it's funny and don't feel bad for it.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:15, Reply)

My new tent-dresses are very flattering this is true

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:16, Reply)

Hahaha!
Tent dresses? Have you seen some of the women on the street? Those that weight 100+kg, and still wear jeans and low cut tops? When you're like that I'll tell you to lose weight and wear tent dresses.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:18, Reply)

I think to a large extent you make your own "luck", or whatever you want to call it.
Whingers about how bad shit is have themselves to blame mostly. Unless you're stuck in a tsunami or something...
(Bear Pookie The Frankly Challenged. Halloween is coming to town., Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:17, Reply)

I agree with you
Even if you're stuck in a tsunami. I've seen families on the tv feeling happy because they were all alive, even when they had lost everything. So it mostly depends on you. OK, if the tsunami kills you, you're in trouble, but eh, maybe it's for a good thing :)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:20, Reply)

Something tells me he'd be into something good.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:19, Reply)

NEVER be 'slightly quieter' - don't you fucking dare.
Also you don't need to lose weight, shut up.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:16, Reply)

I am too strongly opinionated
and look at the bash photo from the other night. I blend with the night
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:22, Reply)

You cannot be too strongly opinionated. Strong opinions are part of what makes you great.
I for one have no time for fence-sitting weedy dullards and I shall be heartbroken if you 'tone yourself down' in any way. if people cannot hack it they are cunts who aren't worth your time.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:26, Reply)

I may or may not agree with you on this Monty.
I'm not really sure.
( girlinthehole, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:28, Reply)

HAVE AN OPINION, DAMMIT!

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:36, Reply)

Unless you're a complete knob like Wormulus there is nothing wrong with being opinionated.

( girlinthehole, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:27, Reply)

I didn't find you loud and overbearing in the least.

( girlinthehole, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:17, Reply)

Thanks BGB :)
unless that was sarcasm in which case I'm totally crying in the corner
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:22, Reply)

hahaha!
I meant it.
( girlinthehole, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:25, Reply)

At least I'm not a Bridezilla type person
it may be on the tv
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:26, Reply)

I watch that.
Those merkin brides are scary.
( girlinthehole, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:27, Reply)

They all look the same
do they just use the same women again and again?
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:43, Reply)

I was tempted to watch it the other day
but couldn't find the time. Sounds funny, though.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Tue 19 Apr 2011, 14:59, Reply)