Well, you make me feel bad now
but sometimes I've been told that he was too tired to start, and in the morning I've woken him up with a "good morning bj" and there was never a complain. Did I do it wrong? Should I stop it?
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:41, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

it depends on the circumstances
if he told you he was too tired then fine, but if he just said no, without a reason, and you started anyway without first getting permission then you could be in trouble.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:42, Reply)

But then
you're killing the surprise! (I'm just joking there)
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:45, Reply)

:-)
I'd be happy enough, but there are situations where that isn't always the case.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:47, Reply)

I know
I think I got it right every time, as I've got no complains!

To be honest, sometimes I've been told no because we were friends and the guy didn't want to break the friendship, but after a bit of talking and touching he'd change his mind, and the frienships are still there!
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

rape doesn't usually involve much in the way of talking
edit: actually, it might, I've never been on either end of a rape
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:54, Reply)

'either end' made me laugh
I'm a bit ashamed.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:58, Reply)

I think you're right
I don't know much about it either.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 12:00, Reply)

If he was genuine about being too tired, then no you did nothing wrong
If he said "Thanks, but I want us to just be friends" then that's different.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:43, Reply)

Well, I've got that too
and he only needed a bit of convincing, really. And after that, he'd want to repeat.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:46, Reply)

if you're already in a relationship then it's not rape it's surprise sex
and I can't ever see Wiggy accusing me of raping him.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:50, Reply)

Agreed!

(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:52, Reply)

only because you are too ugly to give him wood

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)

he said this to me yesterday
I'm sure you two are in cahoots.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:58, Reply)

we have to be
we're setting up a timeshare
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:59, Reply)