he told you to fuck off because he's done something stupid?
and is the change of meeting anything to do with that?
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 15:41, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

He changed the meeting because he's going on holiday the day we originally intended to have the meeting.
So it's a fairly clear case of him being a twat, but rather than apologise he's just being a dick about it and telling me I just have to suck it up and be inconvenienced.
(Bazongaloid, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 15:43, Reply)

hmmm, twattish
if you were to present the gift to him as if nothing had happened would this help smooth things to get you to the gig etc. that seems to be the important aspect.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 15:45, Reply)

Going to the gig isn't a problem
it just means I'm going to driving up or down (or both) from London to Brighton almost every day that week.

Plus not really seeing the wife which pisses me off more.
(Bazongaloid, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 15:50, Reply)

that is a pain.
give him the present, see if it softens him up enough for you explain your predicament and get some slack.

if not, then cunt him in the fuck
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 17 Jun 2011, 15:52, Reply)