Log out and forget about it, be confident in yourself and the relationship.
Snooping NEVER ends well.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 20:56, 4 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

see above - it ended well for me
I got out of something I should never have been in
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 20:57, Reply)

Point taken, but if everything else is going well with him she's just introducing paranoid unfounded concerns.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 20:58, Reply)

not if she just asks him
why he still gets emails from Match.

That or check the sent items/deleted items, no one ever remembers to empty those
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:00, Reply)

Can't.
Logged out. I have no right to be in there and no real reason to distrust him, other than my own insecurities.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:01, Reply)

She can't ask him.
You can't say "I just happened to see your emails" without it sounding like "I'm a complete mentalist bunny boiler. Don't make me cut myself"
( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:01, Reply)

but if she says nothing
the paranoia will turn destructive, when it probably is nothing after all (seriously, I stopped using one site ages ago and they still send me emails)
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:02, Reply)

OR she could forget about it.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:03, Reply)

is that possible?

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:04, Reply)

Well I dunno, out of the two of them berk seems the more emotionally mature
and, wait, can we talk about robots or paraplegics or something, this is getting far too serious. CYBORG ROBOT PARAPLEGICS!
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:07, Reply)

Robots! woo!
Yeah, I was getting a little too involved in that shit
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:08, Reply)

*speechless*
videosift.com/video/Robocat-Guy-Builds-Robotic-Body-for-His-Paraplegic-Kitty
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:10, Reply)

he looks like he's getting dizzy

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:12, Reply)

Cute
but that cat looks suicidal.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:12, Reply)

One step further away from logging off and forgetting about it.
He's a man. Men do these things. Maybe he just hasn't cancelled it, or hasn't clicked the unsubscribe link. Just because he's got an email doesn't instantly mean he's off fucking someone else or even thinking about fucking someone else. Hang on, no, he's a man, he's probably thinking about fucking someone else. But we all do that, it doesn't mean he's actually going to.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:03, Reply)

Also, if he had anything to hide, do you think he'd be stupid enough to leave his email logged in?

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 20:57, Reply)

Not stupid, just incredibly forgetful.
Which he is.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:02, Reply)

considering how he's proven to be, mentioning it will likely end the relationship

( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 20:58, Reply)

Already have, I spotted it there
knew I'd want to open it and logged out immediately instead. There could be emails from a hundred girls in there and it wouldn't give me the right to look at them.

I just feel rather paranoid now.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:00, Reply)

Fuck his brains out, that'll teach him.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:04, Reply)

If I were confident of my ability to do so
then I probably would.
(berk, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:08, Reply)

Practise makes perfect.
I didn't become the slut I am now overnight you know.
( girlinthehole, Wed 13 Jul 2011, 21:16, Reply)