I don't think there's any such thing.
it's a continual process of changing.

I work and pay my bills and support my child, this is all anybody has a right to demand of me.

Beyond this I intend to continue to please myself and be as silly as I feel like being.

Only time will tell if this is a mid-life crisis or wisdom.

I suppose the point I became an adult is the point I realised that I no longer have to conform to other people's notions of adulthood.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Thu 28 Jul 2011, 15:29, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

I reckon wisdom.
Mid-life crisis = fast car and dolly birds.
( girlinthehole, Thu 28 Jul 2011, 15:37, Reply)

Or too many bikes
and a succession of questionable relationships?

No, I don't think so either, but if I've learned on thing over the years it's that whenever I think I've got it sussed, I'm wrong and in a couple of years I'll have another idea.

I think that this time I am actually OK, but I've been thinking that as long as I can remember and been wrong every time.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Thu 28 Jul 2011, 15:40, Reply)

Yes but the questionable relationships were in the past.
Onwards and upwards CQ.
( girlinthehole, Thu 28 Jul 2011, 15:44, Reply)

Indeed.
*gets on someone and up something*
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Thu 28 Jul 2011, 15:48, Reply)

Haha!

( girlinthehole, Thu 28 Jul 2011, 15:50, Reply)