I don't really have a favourite song
tennis boy has been known to stop mid shag when his favourite band came on when i've left music playing in the living room. Also slightly disconcerting, but at least I laughed and he carried on afterwards.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:33, 2 replies, latest was 14 years ago)

I hope his favourite song is this
www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwKV__zHtPY
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:35, Reply)

On a train using mobile internet
please to explain.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:36, Reply)

It's the BBC theme tune to Wimbledon.
I wsa going to add that I hope he insists you making a 'grunting' noise during sex, in the style of whoever is his favourite female tennis player at that time.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:41, Reply)

Pfft
I only watched wimbledon for the first time this year and even then it was only the highlights on iplayer. So I wouldn't have recognised it most likely!
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:55, Reply)

ew why'd he stop? to enjoy the song? weirdo

( Lisette von Falcon, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:35, Reply)

It was a bit strange
but I think it was partly to enjoy the song and partly to give himself a breather.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:38, Reply)

are you still together? if so, going well? if not, shall i prank call him?
I've been out of the loop
( Lisette von Falcon, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:43, Reply)

yeah, quite happily so
to my surprise. I expected him to have tired of me by now and I am delighted that this is not the case.
/is worryingly smitten
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:52, Reply)

So do I need to buy a new hat?
I seem to remember it was me telling you to go for it.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:54, Reply)

you know what?
I used to be quite horrified by the idea of marriage and weddings and all that stuff. But I'd say yes if he asked. I really, really like this one.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 18:58, Reply)

Also, it's worth remembering that the first marriage doesn't count.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:04, Reply)

yeah, that's the practise one

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:06, Reply)

Don't be horrible
it's rare that I get this attached and mushy, so don't spoil it for me. I can honestly say this is the first relationship I've been in where I genuinely wanted to spend and could see myself spending the rest of my life with them. You know, kids and mortgage and all that crap.
Of course, I haven't told him this and it'll probably never happen. But here's hoping, eh?
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:10, Reply)

:D
then genuinely I wish you good luck. And you probably should tell him one day, he might feel the same way
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:11, Reply)

Oww, bless.
Do you think TB feels the same?
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:12, Reply)

he says some very sweet things
not often, but occasionally. And he does sometimes joke that I need to get a better job so we can buy a house with a massive garage for all the classic cars we want.. ditto joking about getting a dog. I dunno. I don't want to get all serious on him and scare him off, he says he loves me and I'm happy with that for now.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:18, Reply)

The 'L' word is a big step.
Of course, if he really loved you, he'd get a really really good job, so you could either give up work altogether, or you could just keep doing a job you like.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:20, Reply)

academia and children do not mix well
sooner or later I will probably end up in the nhs anyway. the pay is still pants but at least there are more prospects.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:25, Reply)

You might have got your PhD by then!

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:27, Reply)

meh, unlikely
masters, maybe. And post-doc roles and children go even less well together than the job I'm in now. Especially since I'd be 30or more by the time I finished my phd, then i'd need to have at least one job before kids or risk ruining my career before it's even begun. so that's mid-30s at least. leaving it awfully late, I can't deal with lack of sleep now, I'd be hopeless when I was old.
(berk, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:37, Reply)

Does that mean I've never been married then?
Cos' sure as shit I ain't doing it again.
( The Disappointed Caravanner of the year, Thu 22 Sep 2011, 19:14, Reply)