Maybe I'm phrasing it badly.
I'd not look for a nutter, but I think I'd find it hard to relate to someone who had no experience, first or second hand of some of the stuff I've been through, or watched others go through. They weren't there man, they weren't there.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:13, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

They'll have their own problems
and as long as you look for those issues in people, all of the attendant ones will always come with it
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:15, Reply)

Maybe.
Maybe it's just a matter of life experience. I feel I've packed a fair bit in, and while I can be childish as hell, sometimes I feel old before my years.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:18, Reply)

I think most people feel that though

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:20, Reply)

Meh, you're probably right.
still not attracted to vanillas.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:22, Reply)

What constitutes a vanilla
in this sense at least?
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:23, Reply)

It's hard to define.
It's a feeling I have, something about not seeing the darker side of things. Maybe I'me inventing distinctions where there are none and every body has suffered their own stuff, what do I know I'm in a philosophical mood and way out of practice. I feel bad for my friend.
( CQ Knows the truth, all of it., Sun 23 Oct 2011, 23:40, Reply)