^ this I've learnt the hard way.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:45, 2 replies, latest was 14 years ago)

It's crackers sleeping with people you like straight away.
The only downside to waiting is it gets built up and they'll be disappointed when it's abundantly clear I haven't got a clue what I'm doing.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:46, Reply)

Well if I ever get another date before I die I'm not putting out till I'm sure they really like me......
..........or I get too drunk to care.
( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:48, Reply)

Fuck it, I'd just go for it
it's been long enough, now
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:51, Reply)

If only I looked more like George Clooney.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:53, Reply)

I no rite.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:53, Reply)

I'm loving the sig Blousie.
It's all positive.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:54, Reply)

I'm trying.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:56, Reply)

Very :-)

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:00, Reply)

Come on sex is the least important thing.
Maybe I'm a massive poof or maybe I'm a bloke who was born three hundred years after his time but it's the fact you both get on and like each other that's most important. Then and only then after that you can think about bumping uglies.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:08, Reply)

You are correct but sometimes you don't know how much you like someone till after bumping uglies.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:11, Reply)

I've never been in this situation.
Mostly because I haven't slept with enough people to know good sex from the bad. Well actually one girl I was with was useless, so I suppose I don't know competent sex from amazing sex.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:19, Reply)

I wasn't talking about how good in bed they are.
I mean just generally get to know someone.
( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:21, Reply)

Oh right yeah.
If I think I like someone I'll definitely give it a good while til I sleep with them, obviously it can work the other way round where like you say you don't realise you like them until after doing the deed. That's happened to me a couple of times and it's ended disappointingly which is why I'm even more staunch about my views now.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:26, Reply)

Me too Barry.
Knickers on till I know them.
( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:27, Reply)

And once you know them, you can just pull 'em to the side.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:28, Reply)

*looks disdainful*

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:30, Reply)

(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:32, Reply)

?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:33, Reply)

I think its the wrong image.
I can't find the original, this one's too fast to understand what's properly gonig on. Come on though, it's a guy doing the "OOOOOH!" thing people do when one individual insults another.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:35, Reply)

just a bit of fabric fucking

( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 22:31, Reply)

The 'hard way' is the best of all the ways.

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:53, Reply)

Are you being rude?

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:54, Reply)

Yes Blousie.
Yes I am.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:55, Reply)

Good.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Dec 2011, 21:56, Reply)