more likely to persuade the court that you've acted reasonably when it comes to making a determination and awarding costs
in my cynical view
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:23, 1 reply, 12 years ago)

so in who's favour does it work? batty boy or his lesbians wife?

( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Mon 13 May 2013, 13:27, Reply)

The lawyers'

( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:29, Reply)

^^^^^^^^

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:38, Reply)

depends what happens
i say go with a good grace, keep a careful record of what is discussed, then if nothing has changed after about 2 more sessions, explain carefully and rationally, with input from solicitor where required, that it is NOT WORKING YOU STUPID IRRATIONAL BITCH.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:31, Reply)