I'm soo annoyed
This year I fell out with my so called best friend from uni. Irritating, but all in all handleable. Perhaps deleting her from Facefuck wasn't the most mature thing to do, but in the name of pruning and all that...

Now in an act of true adolescent cuntyness she's just spoiled the surprise party I was organising for a mutual friends birthday whilst i'm home later on in the month. I've invited people from all over the country to come to this thing, and i've been organising in secret for weeks.

Apparently I've really been organising a party for myself. and inviting someones parents and work collegues to a surprise party is just about the shittest thing a person can do. (no, were not 18, but actually closer to thirty)

Now I have the choice of trying recontact everyone and tell them its off, and being the total crazy random girl who's been secretly contacing all her friends, or completely coming clean to the birthday girl, which would negate my higher ground position, cos inevitably my dropping the surprise bash news would also drop the surprise spoiler in it too.

What would you guys do?
(weekirst23 Is broken! Silly ice. Silly High heels!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:05, 20 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

I'm slightly confused
how has she spoiled the surprise?
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:11, Reply)

Same here
I think she told everyone that the OP was organising a party for herself. and inviting someones parents and work colleagues or something


I think clarification is needed
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:14, Reply)

Thirded

(Applebite Uh! A cow!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:14, Reply)

that was kind of what I got from it
can't be right though
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:17, Reply)

other party
She convinced the birthday girl to have a house party at her house on the same night
(weekirst23 Is broken! Silly ice. Silly High heels!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:18, Reply)

Did she know you were organising a party?
It all sounds a bit whingey to me
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:19, Reply)

oh right
what a fucking bitch. in that case you probably need to tell the birthday girl that you were organising a surprise party. it'll ruin the surprise, but that can't be helped. make sure you get across that your ex-friend knew about the party and tried to disrupt it.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:19, Reply)

^^This
I'd follow Satan's advice.
( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:23, Reply)

NO
She won't in anyway let me just join forces. I emailed her weeks ago, inviting her in an olive branch fashion and this was the result

edit.
just saw that... I suppose you're right. i was just so mad when the ex friendd emailed me this morning to tell me so...
(weekirst23 Is broken! Silly ice. Silly High heels!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:19, Reply)

she emailed to tell you so as well....
she needs cunting in the fuck
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:21, Reply)

Something
like that.

Best place to vent is this....

I was actually proper upset about it...
(weekirst23 Is broken! Silly ice. Silly High heels!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:23, Reply)

I'm not surprised
that was a really vindictive thing that she did, fair enough you fell out and all that, but to spoil something for someone else purely to get back at you is well out of order.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:30, Reply)

Don't just contact birthday girl
but make sure everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, is aware of why it is no longer a surprise and why. Then you won't have to cunt her in the fuck yersel.
(porkylips looks better as the sun goes down., Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:38, Reply)

yeah, this

( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:50, Reply)

^
seconded. The sooner everyone knows that you were being a really good friend to the birthday girl and organising a party for her, and the sooner the birthday girl knows this herself, the less damage can be caused by the other bitch.
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 15:30, Reply)

What Vipros said up there
You'll have to ruin the surpirse element which is a shame, and then kick the shit of the little bitch for fucking up!
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:24, Reply)

tell bday girl everything
then hopefully she will keep up the masquerade with the bitch who will end up sitting alone on bday night.
(bazmorningstar efil4nat3b, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 13:59, Reply)

Come clean to the birthday girl
Ok, so it won't be a surprise, but she'll appreciate the effort you've put in just as much if you tell her now as opposed to finding out on her birthday. Try not to be too accusing of this so-called mate, but explain what she's done and why. Hopefully your birthday friend will be justifiably outraged at the silly wench and cunt her in the fuck for you..
(berk, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 14:08, Reply)

Thanks
Gotta love this place for cheering a girl up.

I thought this sort of shit ended when you left high school.

Apparently not
(weekirst23 Is broken! Silly ice. Silly High heels!, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 16:20, Reply)

god
who'd be young? Right plan of action
1. Do absolutely nothing about it. Find something better to worry about.
( I have run out of coke is a little sweaty, Mon 6 Jul 2009, 17:15, Reply)