but if they are not the right one
and yet there is nothing wrong with them, you don't want to hurt their feelings when breaking up with them.

I've been through this, she hadn't changed, my feelings had and I'd come to the realisation that it wasn't going to work. It wasn't her, it was me.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:40, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

You bastard

(Bazongaloid, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:42, Reply)

I know
it haunts me
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:43, Reply)

Did you grow your beard in penance?

(Bazongaloid, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:44, Reply)

given the timing of me growing my beard in relation to the event
I will have to say yes.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:45, Reply)

You said it wasn't going to work.
It wasn't going to work because she didn't have what you needed for the relationship to work. She obviously didn't have it at the beginning of your relationship also and you weren't aware of it but it still down to her in the end just like it was down to me with mine.
( girlinthehole, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:54, Reply)

it can be looked at from either way really
the main reason I saw that we didn't have a future together was the difference in what we wanted to do, and where. Which wasn't a problem with either of us really, it was just something that was.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 9:59, Reply)