It is just me, or does anyone else find the term 'Friends with benefits' more offensive than fuckbuddies?
I know it's usually the other way around, but I find FWB more offensive purely because it implies that what you're doing is going to lead somewhere and isn't a dirty nasty degrading act - that you love, lets be honest.

Opinions please

Or for the virgins...how many times did you wank while thinking about Megan Fox last night?
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:04, 19 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

I don't care what it's called as long as I'm getting some.

( girlinthehole, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:16, Reply)

unless you can both be on the same page
as to when you want sex and when you just want to be friends, the arrangement sucks. Best kept separate really.
( djtrialprice, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:27, Reply)

why do you consider it offensive?

( Lisette von Falcon, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:27, Reply)

I find it offensive for the reasons stated in my original post
'Polite people' state that fuckbuddies is a coarse and bad word to use for describing such a union, whereas I find FWB to be far worse because it's using flowery language to describe a feeeelthy act(s).
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:32, Reply)

I realise that but, I mean WHY?
Whats the point in being offended by such a pointless piece of nonsense?

Everyone knows you can't be friends and have sex. Golly.
( Lisette von Falcon, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:44, Reply)

It's my right to be offended goddammit!
If people can be offended by me saying fuckbuddy, then I reserve the right to be offended by them calling them friends with benefits.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 20:04, Reply)

alright
*backs away slowly*
( Lisette von Falcon, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 20:06, Reply)

I don't find it offensive as such
Just really shit and vague. And round here a friend with benefits is someone who's just been to the post office and will buy you a pint with their Child Support money.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:28, Reply)

Hehehehe
Oh and...

*grrrrrrrrs*
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:33, Reply)

Hiya hun!
Oh I mean "You lookin at my Carlsberg, nemesis?" I don't think there should be a name for the fuckbuddies thing, btw. Every case is different. Usually one of the pairing cries after every shag tho!
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 19:43, Reply)

Nah
I'm not looking at your Carlsberg... I'm checking for weaknesses... yup... found one!! Mwahaha

I concur, I don't like either name for fuckbuddies, its all a bit of bollocks really isn't it!? Eventually one person wants more and the other one doesn't and the friendship ends up breaking down because of it... well from what I understand!!
(Flim-Flam the Magnificent "You is talking loco and I like it!", Tue 8 Sep 2009, 20:14, Reply)

Yeah well, the grocer told me what you do with bread
Why don't you take up with the baker's wife inste-e-ead?
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 20:33, Reply)

Haha, nice

( fuck shit up the best you never had, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 20:04, Reply)

Speaking of nice, let's go the whole hog.
Call it something totally vague, totally nice, totally non-offensive. How about instead of 'friends with benefits' we call them 10CCs? Because you know that inbetween encounters one of them is crying, drinking Skol and singing 'I'm Not in Love' over and over.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 20:38, Reply)

Pffft!
Never a truer word said. Now where's my Best of 10cc album?....
( Sunburn Go on.... It's character building!, Wed 9 Sep 2009, 9:55, Reply)

14.37.

( Devil_In_Tights the *real* DiT!, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 21:03, Reply)

I wish I was a fuckbuddy
I'm just a fucktard
(Richard Earl of Cambridge Cruel, Savage, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 22:48, Reply)

Both implies you're friends with the person.
He tolerates me. But we don't make very good conversation, partially because I'm scared I'll say the wrong thing and fuck things up, and partially because he doesn't like me.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Tue 8 Sep 2009, 22:58, Reply)

i really object to that
i am NOT a virgin







did i just give away more than i intended
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Wed 9 Sep 2009, 0:35, Reply)