I am completely devastated
But what the hell do I do/say? Its just too weird to deal with at the moment. Cant really believe its happened. Plus all our friends are here so I cant really scream at him for being bummed.
(i should have joined myspace, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:33, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

Oh. Shit. I'm sorry.
In that case you've got a shedload of self restraint. A quick "outside - now" followed by an open-air bollocking/questioning might be the best idea. If your friends know what went on I'm sure they'll understand.
Then maybe take chickenlady's advice.
(Paolo Nutini's Bikini Better than Frederick Fleet's optometrist, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:51, Reply)

Was he definitely the reciever?
Because that's a bit weird.
( Bazongaloid, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 14:32, Reply)

But in response to your initialy question
i.e. what do you do? I would have it out with him right now regardless of who is there. If he thought he might be gay while being in a straight relationship there are ways and means of dealing with the situation, bringing home a bloke to your girlfriends place is not the way to deal with it so make sure everyone knows what a cunt he is. Gay or Straight, cheating is cheating so tell him to fuck right off.
( Bazongaloid, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 14:35, Reply)

^^This

( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 18:13, Reply)