Utterly.
I know there's no comfort. Try and look forward to your next meeting and plan something fucking spectacular so you know you'll both have a whale of a time. It won't be long before she starts asking questions of her mum and she'll want regularity in your contact.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 13:57, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

^This
There will come a time when she will demand to see you. I mean ffs, you're the coolest dad I know of.
( girlinthehole, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:00, Reply)

^ and then this
It all seems to come down to Mummy's mood swings as far as I can see. Does your poor daughter not get a say in the matter? You always seem to have a great time when you do get to see her, so I'd be surprised if she wasn't at the very least a little disappointed about this turn of events.
(LongJohnBaldry, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:24, Reply)

Her mother seems to see her
as some kind of human Honda Accord, for her to use on me to get her fucked-up revenge on me for finishing with her.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:28, Reply)

So - if you don't mind me asking - had you done anything to upset the Uber-Bitch before she forced this decision upon you?
Or is it actually just down to her mood swings?
(LongJohnBaldry, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:31, Reply)

She claimed the mood swings were hormonal
Bit hard to still pass them off as such nearly two years after giving birth though, eh?
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:37, Reply)

Well, quite. And even if they were hormonal,
her case for depriving you of your daughter for two weeks is on even shakier ground than Haiti. As Noel suggests further down, I wonder if it's worth keeping a record of these things - after all, if she's still suffering post-natal mood swings as she claims, a good solicitor might argue that the child's father should be allowed more access to check on the child's well-being. And if she's not, then a good solicitor should tell her to stop being such a stroppy bitch and allow you your weekend visits.

But all this advice is for another day when you're feeling less sore. For the time being, I shall proffer a manly internet hug
*manly internet hugs*
(LongJohnBaldry, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:45, Reply)

Thank you my friend.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Fri 19 Mar 2010, 14:51, Reply)