Isn't it a normal tendency to find people who look like you attractive,
obviously allowing for gender differences.
Not that I'm suggesting you're normal BGB.

Have a look in the local pages at the wedding photos. It's funny how some couples look like each other in drag.
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:22, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

I've never been with anyone who looked like a male version of me.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:24, Reply)

Yeah, I said you weren't normal!
It does sound a bit of an odd thing to do, like finding a girl who looks like your mother. But do it they do.
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:31, Reply)

and furthermore -
following your directions to someone else earlier I found some pics of you on flikr - when you had mid length hair. Damn attractive if you don't mind me saying. How long is it now?
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:34, Reply)

Aw thanks but I don't take good pics : (
It's shoulder length now.
( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:40, Reply)

Hmmm - I've just grown a couple of inches too.

( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:42, Reply)

You dirty old man.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:42, Reply)

No seriously - it's just touching my collar.

( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:45, Reply)

are you going to keep growing it?

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:42, Reply)

Yup! I feel my old hippy self coming to the fore again.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:43, Reply)

Who are you talking to now?

( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:43, Reply)

^ truth
read some article or the other about how you're attracted to people who mirror your face in someways
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:24, Reply)

Thought as much.
Of course that's a shallow attraction and I'd bet most b3tans look beyond that. With exceptions.
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:33, Reply)

Look beyond that to the breasts?

(PsychoChomp, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:38, Reply)

Tell us - how do you map the female form?
in that first sight flick round the essentials?
Eyes-lips-breasts-legs-bum or what?
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:40, Reply)

I haven't really put much thought into it to tell you the truth,
but women apparently stare at the genitals more than men when watching porn, men look at the faces more often.
(PsychoChomp, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:46, Reply)

That's because the men in porn are munters.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:47, Reply)

didn't we discuss this the other night?

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:47, Reply)

Not with me.

( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:48, Reply)

You're right
I think it was Darth Foxtrot and camel
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:50, Reply)

Same question - if we can leap over the porn -
Tell us - how do you map the male form?
in that first sight flick round the essentials?
Eyes-lips-biceps-legs-bum or what?
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 16:12, Reply)

Eyes, face, upper body
in about that order. Below upper body can wait until they're walking away
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 16:19, Reply)

So that's my chances blown.
Feet? doesn't anyone look at feet. My feet are good.
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 16:30, Reply)

Hair, face, build, smile, clothes.
Why yes, I am shallow.
(Applebite Uh! A cow!, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 16:41, Reply)

That is not what I would have thought.
Do you know why, or even have a totally unsound theory why?
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:48, Reply)

No I do not, I think it was just an excuse for a third year psychology student
to watch porn with people, they didn't put forward an explanation.
(PsychoChomp, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:50, Reply)

i like breasts

( broadsword, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:44, Reply)

I'm glad some people
can look beyond attractiveness or I'd never have any dates haha
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:38, Reply)

Agrees!
Yay for personality.
( girlinthehole, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:42, Reply)

I've been quite lucky in that respect
gone out with some good-looking men (better looking than me by far) who have been fantastic people as well
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:43, Reply)

I have a pretty huge personality.

( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:50, Reply)

I know a girl with a lovely pair of personalities

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 16:13, Reply)

Apparently so
my wife's always pointing out couples that are 'facially matched'. I have no real idea what the hell she's on about - especially when the people she's talking about look (to me) nothing like each other.
(secretsquirrel, Wed 28 Apr 2010, 15:37, Reply)