I bet you didn't really care what he was doing before you found out he was engaged.
Now you can't have him he seems like the perfect guy.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:21, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

He was the perfect guy to start with.
THAT'S WHY I'M UPSET.
( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:24, Reply)

Oh he was the perfect guy?
Bad luck.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:26, Reply)

He wasn't perfect though
he's manipulative and indecisive. You'd never be happy with someone like that. Unless being treated like dirt is your thang, which I hope it's not.
(Juan Quar is clinging to her front teeth on, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:41, Reply)

It looks like being treated like dirt is all I can get.

( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:43, Reply)

Usually one's perfect partner isn't four thousand miles away across a huge expanse of sea.
Unless you work on a cable-laying ship or something.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:43, Reply)

Why wouldn't it be?

( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:44, Reply)

because forriners are pricks

(PsychoChomp, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:46, Reply)

I was being flippant
but I do actually think that the ideal relationship is where the two people involved can actually touch each other occasionally.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:47, Reply)

We did.

( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:49, Reply)

I know, but I'm talking about daily.
I'll shut up though.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:50, Reply)

He's in Canada or America?

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:48, Reply)

America.

( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:50, Reply)

That puts a different slant on things, Blousie
Extra-long-distance or the prospect of emigration could kinda put you off anyone.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:53, Reply)

It's not like it came as a big surprise I lived in another country.

( girlinthehole, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:54, Reply)

Well, when you're in the flushes of being into someone
you can ignore reality and practicality.
Was one of you thinking of relocating?
It's just that you're putting this down to you and letting it affect your self-esteem and I'm just thinking it's circumstances. And yes, maybe he led you along, but one of you moving to another country while his head was all over the place? Bit risky.
You should be glad it didn't happen. Really.
OR he's a cunt who fancied a shag and a trip to England or fancied having an English philly over for a shag. If this is the case you should be DOUBLE glad you're rid.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:58, Reply)

He was not the perfect guy.
He was faking it and couldn't keep the act going.
Sounds like he knows how to attract, but not keep, girls. And he surely doesn't value them.
If he has had so many 'failures' in his past he will probably keep having them. Bet they don't get married at all.
( Larry Vest One day at a time, sweet Jesus, FFS., Mon 10 May 2010, 10:17, Reply)

Oh dear
This makes sense...WHAT'S HAPPENING WITH THE WORLD, WHEN CHOMPY IS RIGHT?
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Mon 10 May 2010, 9:44, Reply)