As soon as my Lady and I became an 'item', I let the ex know
To be fair, we'd split up 18 months before then, but she's a good friend and we always stayed in touch. She didn't really take it well, said some things that shook me, and so I didn't want to broadcast it on FB.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:26, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

that sucks a bit that she can not take it well after 18 months
I'd say you kind of lose any right to that sort of thing way before that
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:27, Reply)

Doesn't stop someone feeling things though
No matter if they have a right to or not.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:29, Reply)

that is true
people need to learn to keep things to themselves sometimes though!
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:30, Reply)

Oh certainly, myself included!
I don't blame or resent her for it though.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:31, Reply)

good stuff
sounds like you are happy with your lady now though. good job.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:32, Reply)

Cheers!

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:36, Reply)

Did she expect you to be single forever?

( girlinthehole, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:27, Reply)

For a long time I expected to be

( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:30, Reply)

I wish I'd expected to be single for so long.
It would have made things a lot easier.
( girlinthehole, Mon 7 Jun 2010, 15:32, Reply)