You can learn from the past, just don't wish for it or regret it.

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 14 Jun 2010, 11:18, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

even when it is demonstrably better?
I'm not disagreeing with your advice, I'm just saying its almost impossible to carry out. I'm moving on with my life, but it's just fact that I'd prefer to be who I was 4 years ago. Doesn't mean I cry all the time thinking about it, just that I don't see the present as a great place to be
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 14 Jun 2010, 11:22, Reply)

Same here.

( girlinthehole, Mon 14 Jun 2010, 11:24, Reply)

Of course it's pretty much impossible, but worth a try
Also by focusing on the present and dealing with whatever issues are currently important you can begin to increase your quality of life and you'll be as happy as you were 4 years ago.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 14 Jun 2010, 11:26, Reply)