that is well out of order!
You don't prioritise moving house over your best friend's wedding. I'd be livid.

It's so annoying when people don't RSVP. In my parents' day that would mean you were blacklisted by the entire group, it just wasn't done.

It's bad enough that people don't tell you if they're coming to your birthday party or not, but a wedding is important shit.

I am outraged on your behalf.
( Kitty v1.0 desperately naive, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:25, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

thank you
your post has made me feel much better!
( ascorbate, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:28, Reply)

Kitty is right
Doing your wedding list makes you re-evaluate who your friends really are and when they don't reply, well you know exactly what kind of friend they are.

Send them all an email saying that they can't come and that you do not expect them to turn up on the day.
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Thu 1 Jul 2010, 13:30, Reply)

I like that
I haven't started sending ours (my husband to be has a problem with deadlines and hasn't given my a number of people yet, so I can't order the invites)

But yes, I'll say, if you don't reply by the 8th of November (2 months before) you're off.
(Aberracion Life's getting very complicated, but a lot of fun., Thu 1 Jul 2010, 14:31, Reply)