Turning the tables by putting herself out there to be used?
I don't see how... Serious denial going on IMHO.
(Bicycle Repairman "you're also a bit of a wanker", Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:42, 3 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

She has a nack of picking men who get besotted and want her to be their girlfriend
So she's not being used as such, but I still don't think she's doing herself any favours.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:47, Reply)

Not at all
Sooner or later, the offers dry up and she'll be full of regret.
(Bicycle Repairman "you're also a bit of a wanker", Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:51, Reply)

She needs to get better at wanking
And at judging men
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:52, Reply)

far too obvious strikethrough

( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:52, Reply)

Brilliant work!
I like your style...
(Bicycle Repairman "you're also a bit of a wanker", Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:56, Reply)

To be honest I had a female friend who was sex mad and put herself about.
She had a whale of a time. She eventually found 'the one' and got married.
( girlinthehole, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:47, Reply)

It works for some, but not for others
I think I'd like to have not wasted an opportunity or two from my past, but it's all with the benefit of hindsight.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:49, Reply)

Sweet!
When did Lampito get married?
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 15:35, Reply)

it's not being used
if you both want it. It's not something I'd do myself, but if she's happy with it, it's not 'being used'
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:51, Reply)

I agree
But it leads to more hassle than a good shuffle on your own
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:54, Reply)

I agree absolutely
which is why I wouldn't do what she does.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:57, Reply)

Invariably though...
...some people read more into the situation than others. If men end up infatuated with Roota's mate then she's hinting at offering goods under false pretences.

Ergo, someone gets used.
(Bicycle Repairman "you're also a bit of a wanker", Fri 6 Aug 2010, 14:58, Reply)