Just say
"would you like to go out with me sometime?"

That way you get to find out what she'd like to do and when she's free after she's said yes.
( Kroney, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:13, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

My mate taught me this, always give some sort of end-date, such as 'next week'.
It forces them to give a definative awnser.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:15, Reply)

Well, if you're into forcing them into definitives
just cut out the middle man and give her a raping.
( Kroney, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:16, Reply)

Heh, no, not like that.
But I find, most of the time, I would say something like "Do you fancy [doing something] some time?" and she'll say "Yeah', that sounds good, I'm busy at the moment will let you know", and it'll never happen. Where as if you set a timeframe, if it's 'no', it's 'no', and you can deal with it, or "I'm going on holiday, I'll be back and maybe then", but end up waiting forever and in the mean time you don't move on.

If you say "Next week", then it's more definative.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Wed 11 Aug 2010, 14:24, Reply)