equal fun is the key
much more enjoyable when the other person is getting off too
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:44, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

precisely
I'd never do anything that I wasn't sure the other person would like just as much

edit: apart from ask them on a date
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:45, Reply)

I'm kind of glad I never had to ask anyone out on a date
I'd be horribly nervous about it.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:51, Reply)

God I haven't either
I couldn't.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:52, Reply)

I might be able to now
but not at any point when I was single.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:55, Reply)

It's kind of annoying, come to think of it,
to have the confidence now that I really would have made better use of when I was single, but of course didn't have then.
(berk, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:57, Reply)

yeah
also, not being a lolfatty would have been more useful back then
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:58, Reply)

This is making it sound worse
by the second. But I've finally realised that if I don't ask him out, then it's not ever going to happen
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:59, Reply)

What's the worst that could happen if he says no?
Once you've done it you'll wonder why the hell you built it up so much.
(berk, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 16:01, Reply)

Because the last time I asked someone out
it went terribly. Shamefully badly, and it did rather knock my confidence.

And the worst that could happen is I lose someone who I reckon could be a rather good friend in time
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 16:03, Reply)

Far far much more enjoyable
If she's not into it, it loses it's appeal very quickly.
( Labia Majora You keep on talking but it makes no sense at all, Mon 13 Sep 2010, 15:46, Reply)