I worked with a girl for 9 years before I realised that she's massive.
And that was because I saw her from far away from behind.
She's gooorgeous and confident and wears shit that suits her.
It means fuck all, but in my moments of weakeness I long to be a size 8 again. Bullshit. When I was a size 6/8 I looked like a Ukrainian crack whore.
( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:56, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

I try to dress to my shape
I do actually like my basic shape. I just need to do some work on it.
( Lampito rise with the moon, go to bed with the sun, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:58, Reply)

Ditto

( Roota zweeeeeoooooowm, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:59, Reply)

it does make a huge difference
there is a tipping point for most girls before and after which her sex-appeal to most men drops off dramatically - some of my friends swear this is accurate to the pound!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 11 Oct 2010, 23:59, Reply)

and even then it varies
though as one person told me I looked too clever to be pretty
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:01, Reply)

the clever thing... don't get me started on that hobbyhorse!!
all men say they want intelligent girlfriends. then when they find out you are actually quite bright (and esp if you earn more than they do), an awful lot of them actually don't like it. they want girls who are ALMOST as bright as they are, it turns out, not possibly brighter!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:08, Reply)

I've found this :(
they need someone to listen, not someone to talk to.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:10, Reply)

yup
and their fragile little egos get dented easily too!!
( rachelswipe with a fork, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 0:12, Reply)

What mugs, getting a suga-mama would be awesome.
Right, I'm off to work, L8taz potatoes.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 7:19, Reply)

Seriously, any bloke that won't go with you on just the basis that you're a bit large... ain't worth the time of day.
The only reason a bloke should care about a girl's size is when eaither she makes an issue out of it due to looks, or because her health is in a serious bad way.

I've been with some pretty big girls, and to tell you the truth, I didn't even notice and thought mates were talking bull.

Gimmi a big girl, or small girl, or whatever size... with a decent personailty, over a girl who's textbook good looking* and is dim or dull... any day of the week.

And most my male mates are no different when it comes to the truth, although a lot of them talk about not going with a girl 'cus of size, it's all bull.
( G/PP 💩💩💩💩💩&#128, Tue 12 Oct 2010, 7:16, Reply)