he's not being a girl
he's being a nasty manipulative shit. although, if he's young he might not quite realise that, I suppose.
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Mon 1 Nov 2010, 11:53, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

Tbh, I don't think he realises it that way, he thinks he's just trying to protect himself, when hiding from the problem will make it worse, not easier
very nearly said 'harder', quite glad I didn't
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Mon 1 Nov 2010, 11:56, Reply)

That's why I put in the qualifier
I didn't want to seem to harsh on him. But that IS what he is doing, and he needs to understand that, or he'll carry on doing it to others as well, and it really isn't a nice thing to do to anyone.
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Mon 1 Nov 2010, 11:58, Reply)

I agree
Currently, I've got it with a girl(K) and lad(H) I'm mates with. Made worse by the fact that the lads brother (J) is in love with K, and has been for years. He's firmly in the friend zone though.

Now, K has moved on, after H said he couldn't do it anymore, and didn't want to see her. Then, a week later, he wanted to see her again, and tried it on. Now, she's also out with other lads at the minute, so H both hates and loves K.

It's frankly fucking pathetic and irritating, but as I've been in the same situation with K myself, I help out where I can.

TL;DR - Lad sleeps with girl, can't 'be' with her, hates/loves her now.
( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Mon 1 Nov 2010, 12:04, Reply)