You've made a decision that'll make you happier in the long run.
You can't make an omlette without cracking a few eggs, and it is lovely you feel bad for upsetting your ex, but YOU have to make yourself happy.

Sad though it is.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:39, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)

snap
see berk, great minds think alike :D
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:41, Reply)

And all we need to do now
Is find another mind as great as Amberls.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:42, Reply)

there isn't one*
*contains lies
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:50, Reply)

Don't be daft.
You rock.

(Granted, I wouldn't let you cook for me but....)
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:52, Reply)

I could make you noodles!*
*partially burnt noodles, but they still count
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:56, Reply)

I'l sort myself out!

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 1:01, Reply)

But what if I've made a mistake?
We were really good together. What if I don't find someone else I can be like that with?
/whine
(berk, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:42, Reply)

well it's your choice
but personally I think you're too young to settle. You have serious doubts or you wouldn't be flirting/wanting someone else in a more than casual way. Is 'good enough' actually what you want?

*boring own life example again* I could have a boyfriend if I wanted. I know that. If I was content for him to be ugly, with an IQ of 40 and BO. It's a question of having the person you want or what you'll agree to have
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:44, Reply)

Okay.
Reality.

Maybe you have. But. And this is the point. You were unhappy, for whatever reason, you were unhappy.

People don't just 'upgrade' the subconscious is always working. For whatever reason, your head was telling you to get out of that relationship, and sad though it maybe, you've done it. You might feel more unhappy now than you did before, but it is done.

I know just how upset I was when I ended my marriage even though it wasn't working and there was no chance of making it work. It is a major life event. It will hurt, even if you've ended it for the right reason.

Don't feel guilty. It is, sadly, life.

If you have made a mistake, you'll get over it. In time. If you haven't, then you'll get over it a lot quicker and you've a lot of fun ahead of you.

We make our own decisions, don't let these decisions depress you.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:46, Reply)

Sensible answer is sensible
especially for you, Jeff. I do know that it's probably for the best, for everyone concerned. I'm still going to be all maudlin and stuff for a while though.
(berk, Sat 13 Nov 2010, 0:56, Reply)