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"Recently," Broken Arrow tells us, "The missus informed me that her brother was moving with us." What has your partner done that's convinced you the magic's gone? "Breathe" is not an answer.

(, Thu 21 Oct 2010, 12:33)
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In December 2008 Cath told me she had been having an affair with a childhood sweetheart but it was over now. I wasn't happy to say the least but the relationship stumbled on for a couple of weeks until...
I finally knew it was over when she phoned up screaming that this other blokes wife had found out and that it was me that told her and how dare I interfere in her life(!) etc... Obviously my feelings didn't matter.

So, I'm now down about 4 grand, wasted 4 years of my life, lost most of my friends (it ended up with her being my entire social circle so I didn't get out much). She had mental health issues that she was convinced was physical which led to her not leaving the house without a fucking gasmask. She also always used to look like she'd crawled out of a skip and sometimes didn't wash for weeks. I realised she had problems and tried to go with it and talk her out of some of her more insane ideas (partially drowning yourself with olive oil to clear out your lungs for a start), and smoking whilst insisting she had an allergy to cigarette smoke. Anyway I'd finally had enough with her and her unbelievable self obsession when she started screaming down the phone at me.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:38, 33 replies)

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:40, closed)
I'm screencapping this before it gets modded, to show how much of a massive cunt you are.

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:45, closed)

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:48, closed)
I googled
He must be a shit photographer - the internet's never even heard of him.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:50, closed)
I've got a screengrab.
Just in case.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:52, closed)
I might track this woman down and inform her that some creepy little ex of hers is trying to ruin her life.

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:55, closed)
A more interesting exercise would be to track HIM down, pretending to be her current fella and offering to burn his house down, or something

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:56, closed)
I'll take job A, you take job B.

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:56, closed)
She obviously left him because he hates sex
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:01, closed)
I'm not archiving this.
It'll be letting the pathetic shitcunt win.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:55, closed)
I've never understood why people bother with affairs.
It all seems a bit childish.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:45, closed)
time heals, but outing people on the internet because they upset you is way better, clearly.
fucking hell.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:48, closed)
oh man, it went already...!!

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:49, closed)
He's quick that cr3

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:49, closed)
I'd like to raise a glass to the mods here.

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:49, closed)
I always miss all the fun.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:56, closed)
Hang on, I'll upload the original to b3tards and gaz you a link.

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 15:57, closed)
Please do...
I've only just read this, and all the above posts make no sense... I'm guessing he posted a lot more information than he should have done, but then either he or someone else edited the post?
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:03, closed)
Or at least let us know what has been deleted

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:07, closed)
OP posted the names and details of his ex and the bloke she left him for.

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:08, closed)
You know what, fuck it, I'll get stepped.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:10, closed)
It's not libel if it's true.
And why get sand in your vagina about him but not her?
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 18:05, closed)
He's obviously an absolute prick.
And there is a sitewide policy of NO REAL NAMES.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 20:11, closed)
Holy shite!!
Naughty, clearly this QOTW was a sore point for this guy.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:10, closed)
Ah, the talk of photographs made me think there was Naked Revenge involved...

(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:22, closed)

OK, posting names and locations was a stupid idea, hangs head in shame. I think part of the problem was she didn't leave me for another bloke. If she'd finished with me I would still have been devastated but at least she'd have been honest with me that she'd found someone else she liked better than me and at least one of us would have been happy.
If she hadn't have told me about the affair (it had been going on for a year or so apparently) I would probably be still with her well under her thumb and blissfully none the wiser.
Seeing as she ruined my life why shouldn't I try and ruin hers? Yes it's childish but I'm sure theres a qotw about revenge somewhere.
Anyway, moving on... As someone else said this qotw did get to me and I chucked my rattle out of the pram and acted like a massive cunt, actually I didn't, cunts are useful. It's all in the past now and there's nothing to be done to change things. Life goes on.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 17:08, closed)
You fucking prick
Mentalist Billy no mates shacks up with another nutter and seems surprised that it's all gone wrong. Waaaaaaahhhh Waaaaaaaaahhhhhhh
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 17:56, closed)
Fucking hell, you're a sad prick.
'Life goes on' coupled with 'she ruined my life why shouldn't I try and ruin hers' makes you a proper, proper cunt. I hope you end up alone for the good of everyone else on the planet.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 19:50, closed)
Me too
far too slow to catch the good stuff.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 16:02, closed)
The interweb needs more devil-may-care mavericks like this
Thanks for brightening up this QOTW.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 17:25, closed)
kudos for entertainment value!
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 17:46, closed)

You're both welcome. One day I might do something funny that worth writing about. I probably won't though.
(, Wed 27 Oct 2010, 17:57, closed)
Step 1
Find something that makes you happy

Then come back
(, Thu 28 Oct 2010, 3:08, closed)

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