Future sexual regret?
A few years before I got married to Mrs Airman Gabber we were out in some pub or other with another couple. In some laddish drunken conversation the idea of threesomes in general was discussed. My friends bird said that wasn't her cup of tea but the Mrs said she wouldn't be averse to the FFM thing and in her teens did get an offer of sex with another woman but never followed it up, which she sort of regrets.

I mentioned it a few years later in another drunken converation and she said,"I told you. If you sort it out. But you never did."

Many (still) happily married moons have passed and this tempting notion is still in the back of my mind but I have Teh Fear that if I did go ahead she'd either be outraged I really tried to set it up or that if we did go ahead that we'd see something in eachother (fnarr) that may change everything for the worse. I wouldn't want that at all.
( Airman Gabber Living life like a 70's BBC presenter, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 15:51, 10 replies)

Not that my Mrs would ever be into it,
but I had a similar thing with an old girlfriend once, a half opportunity, but never went through with that.

I'm pretty sure it would have changed the dynamics somehow. In a reasonably well seasoned marriage, I'm really doubtful about whether that's a good idea. Big risk, like you say.
(username failed moderation, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 16:24, closed)

I once had a girlfriend
who kept dropping hints like this during phone calls or by text/email. She'd mention casually that in the past she'd had lesbian relationships and that her (female) friend was up for a threesome, but of course it never happened. She told me she was interested in spanking but never let it happen. She used to talk a lot about wandering around with no knickers on, but I never caught her like that. She professed to liking being tied up with silk scarves but we never got round to it. Still not sure if it was all lies or not.
(Smale is stuffed, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 16:50, closed)

You should ask
Dr. Shambolic. He's the expert on that kind of thing.
(username failed moderation, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 16:55, closed)

What, once having a girlfriend?
That stud!
( monster munch person, man, woman... camera... TV?, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 17:37, closed)

somebody needs to tell him that sitting outside somebody's house every night for a month doesn't make them a girlfriend.

( Ring Of Fire A petty, drooling belming butthurt retard., Mon 12 Dec 2011, 18:38, closed)

What about shitting on the doorstep?

( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 19:37, closed)

That means you're married.

(Vigilante Man weeps because you're stupid., Mon 12 Dec 2011, 20:32, closed)

Fuck.
That would have saved me a fortune.
( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 20:46, closed)

Call me old-fashioned but
why didn't you just talk to her like an adult?
( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 19:21, closed)

get me involved and i garuantee that you will see some thing inside her

( fluffybunnykiller Is feasting on the clitoris of life, Mon 12 Dec 2011, 21:29, closed)