how long did you keep them in seperate rooms to acclimatise?
cos it sounds very much like you fucked up
(piss and shit, Sun 3 May 2026, 9:55, Reply)

We've zoned the house and Aggie is at ease on the top two floors.
Boston is downstairs in a cage so she's tentatively coming and having a look to see if the fucker is still there in his big cage and that's when she gives us a hard time for that THING still being here. We let him out at night when she's in our room - this has worked out pretty well as she's not bothered and he gets used to the house and has a rood old run around.

The shelter where we got Boston did us a plan and it's going as expected. At times it's better, at others it feels worse, but we are making iddy biddy progress.

We've got a couple of those scent calming plug in things on the way but gonna hold off on them till the cats are both in the same space at the same time.
( garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Sun 3 May 2026, 10:35, Reply)

Have you tried instituting a demilitarized zone, enforced by a UN peacekeeping force if necessary?

( Mr. Tea 'ulmmm'/'mmneurgh', Sun 3 May 2026, 10:37, Reply)

First thing we did
we had the white helmets empting turds from litter trays on day one but it hasn't fostered a sense of calm and harmony in the house.
( garold you're on mute I SAID YOU'RE ON MUTE, Sun 3 May 2026, 10:46, Reply)

lol helmets

( Queef Smegwin U r a 🔔🔚, Sun 3 May 2026, 10:54, Reply)