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# Yes
But you cant keep torturing yourself just so she can have a nice time and run away from her problems all the time.
(Pimms'N'Lemonade thinks you are a twat, prove me wrong., Sat 21 Aug 2004, 1:48, archived)
# i know she fancies plenty of other people
including my oldest and possibly best friend. I always fel that her happiness is more important than my jealousy. I'm a nice person who puts others before myself ALL THE BLOODY TIME and of course i'm at a disadvantage over it. Don't say that i shouldn't, because thats just how i feel, if i let my jealousy get the better of me i'd feel beyond awful.
(I helped save b3ta! Yeknom. Incontinence and Premature ejaculation? Easy come, easy go., Sat 21 Aug 2004, 1:53, archived)
# Look dude
Seriously now, dont slag me off about this, im not asking you to do anything, hell i know what its like to put others before yourself but why the hell should you not be aloud to express your emotions to?

Exactly no reason. So anyway im not 'trying' to help you or anything like that, i was just helping you vent some angst, because so very few people let you do that without becoming really pissed off.

So give me a break yeah, and while your at it, give urself a break from this whole *i dont need to have feelings as long as others have em for me* act. Its old and you need to revolutionise or torture yourself till u give in.
(Pimms'N'Lemonade thinks you are a twat, prove me wrong., Sat 21 Aug 2004, 1:57, archived)
# i dont feel that way at all
everyone knows how i feel, i'm very open about my feelings, but they know that i believe that i believe thier happiness is more important than mine (or to be more preicse, i will feel horribly guilty if i put myself before my friends and feel worse for it) and everyone who really cares about me does thier best to encourage me to not be so considerate to them from time to time, and in half a vicious cirlce, i know that my doing this will make them happiest. Simply put, i'm a nice person, but because i'm so nice people often don't let me be.
(I helped save b3ta! Yeknom. Incontinence and Premature ejaculation? Easy come, easy go., Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:02, archived)
# Ok fine /Rum
You know your right. Thats good enough for you, but ima off to bed now, goodnight and goodluck.

/beaten down
(Pimms'N'Lemonade thinks you are a twat, prove me wrong., Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:04, archived)
# that's not being nice
that's being insecure
(I helped save b3ta! .spanky is singing "PEANUTS!", Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:06, archived)
# is it me being insecure
if i think that if i can;t have the best girl i know, my best mate should have her instead? I think the world of both of them, surely if i can't have that sort of happiness, i wouldn't deny the ones i care about the chance to have it.
(I helped save b3ta! Yeknom. Incontinence and Premature ejaculation? Easy come, easy go., Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:11, archived)
# being overly nice the way you describe
is to your own detriment. you yourself have said your friends stop you stepping back for them, they recognise that they don't need you to help them, and hell, they probably don't want you to either. But despite all this, you say you still put other people first even when it really hurts because they're "more important".

That my friend, is insecurity. work on it.
(I helped save b3ta! .spanky is singing "PEANUTS!", Sat 21 Aug 2004, 2:16, archived)