because it reminds me of my friend's dog, now sadly deceased.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:02,
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I feel for you/your mate having my old Border Collie put down was the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life - I felt like such a cnut when the vet put the needle in her - even though she was very old and very poorly.
So I dont think about it and just remember all the fun stuff we did - and how she used to bite everyone that came in the house - soft bites for people she didnt mind and big bites for ppl she realy wasnt fond of
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:18,
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So I dont think about it and just remember all the fun stuff we did - and how she used to bite everyone that came in the house - soft bites for people she didnt mind and big bites for ppl she realy wasnt fond of
and when he had to be put down it was very distressing, but 'the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life'?
Fred was the best dog I have ever known, but he was a dog.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:30,
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Fred was the best dog I have ever known, but he was a dog.
possibly that's a healthy attitude but I don't share it. A friend is a friend.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:33,
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Coco - named by the Mrs shared as much as my life if not more than my mrs - hours wandering hill and dale - well down by the river, she slept on my feet when I was working - saved a fortune on socks and winter heating, came in the car everywhere with me. So feeling like I betrayed her when I took her to the vets, the fact that she trusted me totaly - even when she went blind we still walked for miles with me humming so she knew where I was and telling her to mind when she was about to walk into a tree.
Yep without doubt the hardest thing I have EVER done in my life watching her life ebb away, it made me feel life I had murdered her.
Anyone who thinks a dog is "just" a dog does not deserve one.
My opinion
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:44,
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Yep without doubt the hardest thing I have EVER done in my life watching her life ebb away, it made me feel life I had murdered her.
Anyone who thinks a dog is "just" a dog does not deserve one.
My opinion
I have lost 6 dogs, as well as giving up a dozen or so puppies.
Added to this is 16 cats, cows, rabbits, guinea pigs, pheasants, chickens, mice, rats, gerbils, hamsters, a snake, 2 African snails, stick insects, fleas, lice and crabs*.
When a friend dies it is sad, but death is part of life and when a friend dies, even a human friend, it is something which was always going to happen. I don't like killing, but it isn't the hardest thing to do.
Jesus, did you never own a video recorder?
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:44,
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Added to this is 16 cats, cows, rabbits, guinea pigs, pheasants, chickens, mice, rats, gerbils, hamsters, a snake, 2 African snails, stick insects, fleas, lice and crabs*.
When a friend dies it is sad, but death is part of life and when a friend dies, even a human friend, it is something which was always going to happen. I don't like killing, but it isn't the hardest thing to do.
Jesus, did you never own a video recorder?
is part of life but this was the first time I took anything to be put to sleep which for me was hard.
You keep your attitude, I think I prefer mine
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 12:50,
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You keep your attitude, I think I prefer mine
I think that everything dies and, as with people, it's hard, but something which is just part of life.
Maybe you've had a comparably easy life, but I can think of many, many things which are harder than death which, at the end of the day, is inevitable.
I was more upset by the death of Fred (I choose him in particular because he was, loathe as I am to admit that I had one, my favourite) than I have been by some friends or even family members, but I always knew he would die.
Bearing in mind that I have destroyed animals personally, including rabid dogs, I understand the feeling of guilt and emptiness which looking at them beforehand can bring - it is worse than with a human because the animal doesn't understand - but I find this revulsion from death incomprehensible.
Everything dies, it's just a stage of life.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:00,
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Maybe you've had a comparably easy life, but I can think of many, many things which are harder than death which, at the end of the day, is inevitable.
I was more upset by the death of Fred (I choose him in particular because he was, loathe as I am to admit that I had one, my favourite) than I have been by some friends or even family members, but I always knew he would die.
Bearing in mind that I have destroyed animals personally, including rabid dogs, I understand the feeling of guilt and emptiness which looking at them beforehand can bring - it is worse than with a human because the animal doesn't understand - but I find this revulsion from death incomprehensible.
Everything dies, it's just a stage of life.
That bravery is not looking death on the eye without fear. It's looking life in the eye without it.
EDIT: Then again Oscar Wilde said 'There's only two sure things in life; Death and Taxes.'
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:09,
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EDIT: Then again Oscar Wilde said 'There's only two sure things in life; Death and Taxes.'
But I don't think it's a "revulsion from death". The majority of pet owners don't have to deal with destroying animals on a 'regular' basis, and perhaps try to make the most of their time with their pets, thus putting to the back of the mind the thought that one day that pet won't be there. It's not a revulsion, it's just easier to put it off for some people than it is to face facts. Why deal with it until it's absolutely necessary? I, on the other hand, deal with animal-death pretty regularly and realise that eventually my dog won't be around. It chokes me to think of it, but it is inevitable.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:12,
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When that time comes, he/she has a good long life and you made it happy. I think pets are good things for kids to have as it makes them realise that everything dies. It sounds a bit morbid but it is a fact of life and the earlier you become aware of it, the better.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:18,
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It's arse, but nothing like as arse as not setting out on the road.
[EDIT: worst analogy ever!]
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:20,
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[EDIT: worst analogy ever!]
by coincidence.
I wanted to go riding today, but I was not allowed as we are 'doing something nice'.
Despite constant prompting we have yet to do 'something nice' at all.
I'd be back by now.
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:26,
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I wanted to go riding today, but I was not allowed as we are 'doing something nice'.
Despite constant prompting we have yet to do 'something nice' at all.
I'd be back by now.
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www.b3ta.com/talk/
right that's' it I feel like a proper cuntchafer now. Comence shouting!
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:22,
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right that's' it I feel like a proper cuntchafer now. Comence shouting!
it's done now
I'm sorry about your dogs e.t.c.
I was kidding about the talk board thing
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:30,
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I'm sorry about your dogs e.t.c.
I was kidding about the talk board thing
hence the ";)" bit
don't worry, all fluffed out now :)
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Sun 29 Apr 2007, 13:32,
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don't worry, all fluffed out now :)
