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# A friend and I have an ongoing debate;
I say still birth is worse, but he says cot death is.
Discuss.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 13:57, archived)
# He is right.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 13:59, archived)
# i agree
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 13:59, archived)
# No way!
Giving birth to a corpse would be so much worse than just finding one.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:00, archived)
# Oh, you meant emotionally.
Sure, it would be ickier. Not worse.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:02, archived)
# I'm talking fully formed baby here.
Not just some pussy foetus.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:04, archived)
# whats even worse
is when you ask for tea and they bring you coffee

that's a real issue
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:01, archived)
# Yes.
That is far worse than the death of your child.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:02, archived)
# Damn straight
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:21, archived)
# Only really comparable if you'd been waiting nine months.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:03, archived)
# Thats how long
i have to wait for Lady S to make me a coffee.

Three times in six years I think it is at the moment
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:07, archived)
# i'd say still birth
still birth is like building a spice rack and having it fall off the wall and smash the moment you put it up.

i liken cot death to the spice rack falling off the wall a couple of months later, it's sad but you have the good times to remember and the prospect of making another spice rack.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:02, archived)
# Precisely.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:03, archived)
# Hmm, that's an interesting point.
Like, on the one hand, it would be better if, say, Hitchcock died after making Psycho and just before The Birds, rather than dying while still making obscure british movies in the 20s.

Yet on the other hand generally speaking we prefer people who are not yet famous film directors to die, rather than people who already are.

I have to conclude that it depends on how much you like the baby.
(, Wed 9 Apr 2008, 14:06, archived)