No noise whatsoever during sex
and little reaction or indications of wanting anything, then accusing me of not being interested.

Did all my best and got little reaction out of her. I should have sent her flowers the next morning, as I thought she was dead.

So one day in the kitchen I had enough. She was wearing a skirt, which I suddenly hiked up, and I pulled down her panties. I was determined to get some sort of reaction and went on breathing through my ears for about 15 minutes while she sat (properly) in the chair. All I got was one minor gasp that sounded like discomfort. Worn out, I decided that she apparently didn't like oral and I should give up.

When I stopped, she said, "oh my, you're quite good at that."

Then make enough noise to let the neighbors know -- or at least let me know.
(ChiTown Guy Dating when 35+: sane, single, attractive - pick 2, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 13:44, 15 replies)

Yes, impose your idea of how a woman should react
to your imense sexual prowess on to her, that seems reasonable.
( scarpe We Stole Bikes, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 13:50, closed)

It is a turn on to hear the other person enjoying themself though.

( girlinthehole, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 14:41, closed)

That really wasn't my point though.

( scarpe We Stole Bikes, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 14:46, closed)

are you
millie tant from viz?
(Raol Duke, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 15:25, closed)

*checks pants*
*finds penis*
( scarpe We Stole Bikes, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 15:40, closed)

So that's a yes

( Michael Ellis contributes nothing, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 18:26, closed)

hahahaha
I walked into that, didn't I?
( scarpe We Stole Bikes, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 19:32, closed)

It's what it's all about

( Michael Ellis contributes nothing, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 18:27, closed)

I think the odd "Oh, that's good" is only good manners.
For the record I'm a guy and if I wasn't thing about my other half's feelings I'd probably be silent too. It's comon courtesy to let someone know they're pleasing you.
(Me, I'm not... in any way intoxicated, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 18:52, closed)

Well
For the record, that's not actually what I'm disagreeing with.

It's the attitude that she's at fault for not doing what he wants. They need to talk about it and if she can't or doesn't want to change then he needs to either shut up bitching or end it and find someone who meets his needs and let her do the same.

Although upon rereading the post, the 'Oh, you're quite good at that' implies he's not so good at the rest, so maybe he just needs to up his game.

Either way, he's got a shitty attitude.
( scarpe We Stole Bikes, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 19:36, closed)

I suppose you do have a point.
You would think he would talk to her about it rather than just blaming her.
(Me, I'm not... in any way intoxicated, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 23:25, closed)

Watched much porn?

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 14:05, closed)

you've never touched a woman in real life, have you?

( janet aylia y'all motherfuckers need jesus, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 14:13, closed)

Ah yes corpse copulation
Not a fan
( Michael Ellis contributes nothing, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 18:27, closed)

This reminds me of the old joke about the man going to the chemists to buy contraceptives for his daughter.
"Sexually active, is she?" asks the shopkeep.
"Not really," replies the man, "she just lays there and takes it, like her mother does."
( monster munch person, man, woman... camera... TV?, Fri 5 Aug 2011, 20:09, closed)