letter to a friends girl
About 12 or so years ago I was single, had a woeful job, and was generally not the happy Badd_Dog I am today.

At the same time a friend of mine "Tom" had been with his girlfriend "Caroline" for about 6 years and had been doing the nasty with her best friend "Lynne" for about a year as well.
The highlight of this affair was one post-pub night when we were all out we went all went back to Lynne's place. Here we all watched a porno that Tom had brought round which heavily featured anal. Caroline was sat between Toms legs, Lynne was sat to his right, and I was sat to his left. During one particularly rough anal scene Caroline looks up at Tom and says: "Don't get any ideas, I'm never doing that!". He turns and looks at Lynne and she nods at him knowingly - the look and nod effectively said "we're doing that later". He often stayed the night at Lynnes and Caroline would go home - she was a "mutual friend".

A week or two later Caroline found out about Lynne and Tom, but thought it was a one off...
This is where the relevent to the QOTW bit comes in: I anonymously sent Caroline a letter saying I was another women Tom had had an affair with (he had had other affairs) and that he'd been messing round for a couple of years. It also detailed some of his affair with Lynne.
Now you may think I did this to try and get with Caroline, but no - my motives were purely to help her. I knew that he was gonna get with Lynne but this would have dragged out for a loooong time. EVERYBODY knew about Tom and Caroline and it was only fair she knew as well. May not seem much like help at the time but it made sure she knew what a bastard Tom was (so no "we can work this out" talks) and it helped her make a clean break.

It worked out well for all parties. A year later we saw Caroline and she looked very fit. When she was with Tom she put on a lot of weight, when we saw the new slim and sexy Caroline one of my mates commented that Tom "must have taken her to Pizza Hut every day".
Tom and Lynne are now married with a sprogg.

I feel that my anonymous letter helped everyone get on with their lives much quicker, though you may all disagree!
(Bad_Dogg, Fri 15 Jan 2010, 10:52, 5 replies)

I think you did the right thing
or one of the right things at least.

she clearly needed to know
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Fri 15 Jan 2010, 11:21, closed)

I'm torn
What you did was definitely a good thing to do and it clearly helped.

On the other hand I don't think I could ever grass up a mate.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Fri 15 Jan 2010, 13:35, closed)

This is generally solved by
not having mates who are utter cunts.
(syz, Fri 15 Jan 2010, 15:31, closed)

Luckily he
wasn't and isn't one of my better mates, so didn't feel too bad for him.

During his "affair" period he also pulled one of my better mates girlfriends so he'd already broke one of the biggest "mates don't" rules
(Bad_Dogg, Fri 15 Jan 2010, 16:10, closed)

You're that fucking anonymous
..you don't even know how to spell you own username.
(FUXTIX Not my words, Carol, Mon 18 Jan 2010, 10:05, closed)