I've tried...
and failed. Woman never seem to be able to get on with me. I can just sit there in a room with friends and the woman present will just hate me for no reason without me even saying anything. Dunno why.

Gay men on the other hand can't seem to get enough. I've never understood it. What is it that gay men like and woman hate about me?
(scotsbloke, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:29, 15 replies)

Your gayness?

(Tugnut I got them all..., Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:35, closed)

I suppose it depends.
Are you gay?

If yes, then don't complain about it.

If no, then it's a right bugger.



(pun intended)
( K2k6 has a proper job these days, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:38, closed)

I am gay...but still...
(scotsbloke, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:42, closed)

It's odd
Most gay men whom I know get on very well with women.
( K2k6 has a proper job these days, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:52, closed)

It's possible the OP might be a butch gay?
Or in the case of one bloke I know, geeky to the point of being a furry.
( jim_bob can herd cats., Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:58, closed)

I think it may be the geeky thing. Also, what's a furry? :)
(scotsbloke, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 13:58, closed)

.
Have an excruciatingly patronising article from the BBC

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/magazine/8355287.stm
(Biff..., Wed 16 Dec 2009, 14:30, closed)

LOL. No, that's definitely not me :)
(scotsbloke, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 14:40, closed)

some help
1)The girls you meet don't like gay people (unlikely)
2)The girls you meet are all slappers and when they realise your gay they don't see the point in talking to you (unlikely)
3)You don't talk to them so they don't talk to you(Likely)
4)You smell (probably not)
5)You are not camp enough to be seen as good fun (maybe)
6)You have slept with all their ex's hehe (you tell me)
7)Your friends haven't painted you in a positive light (could be)

Just a few ideas..
(bROKEN aRROW PUA HVI Master, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 14:34, closed)

Yep, agreed with all up there, especially 5
Add:

8) You are seen as a threat because you are very attractive and charming :D
( Michael Ellis contributes nothing, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 14:39, closed)

That you fuck gay men
and don't fuck straight women?
( wotofco pissing in your swimming pool, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 14:50, closed)

your cock
i would think
(Bo Nidle Coming back in from the cold., Wed 16 Dec 2009, 15:32, closed)

Perhaps...
...it's the fact you mean "women" but you type "woman"?
(IHaveTheRightToArmBears, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 16:25, closed)

erm, um, actually, there's always just been one woman present at any social event I've ever been to...erm...honest :)

actually, I think it's cause I don't talk to them, so they don't talk to me. I know one occasion where my mates girlfriend actually felt threatened. Then again, I was being rather flirty with her boyfriend at the time (I was drunk).
(scotsbloke, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 16:31, closed)

I'm straight and have the same problem.
In fact, a gay friend of mine stopped hanging out with me after I got propositioned a good many times when we went out (as friends) and he wasn't.
I freely admit to being a little camp though and I do have a muscly arse, even if the rest of me has gone to seed.
(Me, I'm not... in any way intoxicated, Wed 16 Dec 2009, 17:54, closed)