Why O Why?
As a regular visitor to this site, this QOW made me decide to sign up and share my ignorance with the masses. Apologies for length.

I was working as a temp and started seeing this girl, let's call her Vicky, for that was her name. She was 5'2", gorgeous face, ample bosom and perfect rear. In short, she was out of my league and I was a lucky fucker.

The relationship naturally went slow as we both had come out of long term relationships that ended like an A-bomb on a children's hospital. This was fine as we enjoyed each others company and always had a great time.

So, a month or so down the line after several occasions of me walking her home and her saying, "you're not coming in", and my reply of "I wasn't asking to" before a kiss goodnight (it was our "thing"), we were on our way back after a drink on her birthday.

It was a freezing night and she said I could come in for a bit to warm up before I went for my bus. Not cottoning on to this change in attitude I accepted with no thought of an ulterior motive. Once inside she starts to say "you can stay if you want" shortly followed by "not really" and a cheeky smile.

Now, after I had actually warmed up I get my self together and start to leave. She hugs me as usual and I say goodbye. She then pulls me back to her and says "not yet" as she holds me tighter. Now any normal red blooded, testosterone infused man would of got the hint, sat back down, done the deed and woken up in the morning next to what can only be called the perfect girl.

But me? I say "come on I really have to go or I'll miss my bus". Leaving the girl of my dreams standing in her doorway with a look on her face of sadness and disappointment. I wake up the next morning and then my brain decides to see the truth of everything that happened the night before.

Not surprisingly, she stopped talking to me as much and was never available until we eventually fizzled out. Every single day for two years I have been kicking myself for not manning up, seeing the signals, and giving her the birthday present she wanted.
(SillyBugger, Tue 28 Sep 2010, 21:52, 10 replies)

To be honest,
she sounds like she was fucking you about.
(The man with the flan swashed his buckle on, Tue 28 Sep 2010, 22:08, closed)

2 words:
prick tease
( Smash Monkey lowering the tone of the whole internet, Tue 28 Sep 2010, 22:19, closed)

It's all fun and games till you get accused of rape.

( The Mock TurtIe ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Tue 28 Sep 2010, 22:27, closed)

Nah you just hurt her feelings
turn up on her doorstep wearing nowt but a revolving bow tie and all will be forgiven.
(Brambly Slag is strangely attracted to Steve Buscemi, Tue 28 Sep 2010, 22:33, closed)

I agree - think you had a lucky escape - game-playing is very dull...*shakes head*
(resurrection_mary cannibal_ferox, Tue 28 Sep 2010, 23:28, closed)

Step
1. Make her come

Step 2. High five mates

Step 3. You win
(lemonadegame, Wed 29 Sep 2010, 1:16, closed)

Step 1
Is surely optional she can always finish herself off as you wipe your cock on the curtains...
(Bonzodog29 is an unemployed sponge of the worst kind, Wed 29 Sep 2010, 8:59, closed)

.
I read 'you're not coming in' as 'you're not coming in?'

Changes the whole perspective.
( Not Pineapple anymore, Wed 29 Sep 2010, 10:26, closed)

I agree with the previous replies
She was playing games, and you don't need that. If she was genuinely interested, she wouldn't have let it fizzle out after one failed attempt.

In fact, if you had gone for it, she'd have probably got you all fired up then "Changed her mind", just to watch you squirm. She lost interest because you weren't the compliant doormat she wanted to dangle on the end of a string.

Apologies for the mangled metaphor there
(moon monkey is busy making memories worth repressing, Wed 29 Sep 2010, 12:13, closed)

I'll dangle your doormat in a second...
Would that be promising sex or a fight?
(ElectricSexPants would like to be the Sultan of something, Wed 29 Sep 2010, 16:43, closed)