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Have you ever said something and wished the ground would open up and swallow you? Tell us your tales of social embarrassment.
Thanks to BraynDedd for the suggestion
( , Thu 16 Aug 2012, 14:12)
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I came in on Monday and yelled out across the open-plan office to a South African mate: "Hey Andy, did you see us beat the pakis on the weekend".
I couldn't help but notice by the deathly hush and disciplinary panel that followed that my comment about the cricket might have been misconstrued
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( , Wed 22 Aug 2012, 1:03, closed)
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The person using the word "paki" does so because it is acceptable in their society. Heck, in some societies in the UK it can be acceptable:
www.guardian.co.uk/world/2007/jan/23/race.bigbrother [old grauniad link because it's too late to find something newer.]
The ignorant become hung up on words, everyone else pays attention to actions.
Edit: Another, to go with something above:
www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2004/feb/25/race.world
( , Wed 22 Aug 2012, 0:44, closed)
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So, yes, it generally does.
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Seems you're the xenophobe for assuming another country uses the same racial epithets as yours.
The whole world is not the same as the UK and does not share the same vocabulary.
( , Wed 22 Aug 2012, 1:24, closed)
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No wonder everyone thinks your sort are thick.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 13:36, closed)
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MAybe I just dreamed it when I was high.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 13:59, closed)
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I imagine I'm wrong, though, so I'll just go with whatever popular opinion dictates.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 14:05, closed)
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Still actively racist though, as is paki.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 14:07, closed)
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Which appears black.
"Paki" is racist in historical context only, but is etymologically merely a contraction. Hence (so I understand) a group wanting to reclaim it.
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"Pakistan" means "Land of the Paks" in Persian, so they should really be known as Paks.
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'nigger' is racist in a special way because it's an assertion that all black people come from a certain location. If that were the case, a conversation like this would make sense:
A: "Don't forget John, he's a nigger too."
B: "That's not true- he's from Uganda."
Right now, both 'nigger' and 'Paki' offend some people and communities for the exact same reason- they refer to a group (people with black skin, ethnically Pakistani people- or is it South Asian in general?) and they convey or assume negative sentiment about that group. It is totally unnecessary to know anything about the history of either word to be offended or not offended by it.
What it will take for either of them to not be offensive is probably exactly the same- for that negative sentiment to be bleached from the meaning of the word, which tends to happen when the social conditions that the word is used in change. Like 'paddy wagon', 'gyp', 'fag' (maybe on its way there), in American English. I'm not confident with Br. English examples, but I bet there are some good ones. :)
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who referred to himself and his mates as Paki's but like the N bomb I doubt if I could have called him that even with his full consent
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in sports context. I think it is a cultural thing. It's not right, but it's not considered as socially unacceptable down here. I can kind of see why, but still prefer not to use it myself.
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Fuck off with your office, this was behind a bar, wasn't it?
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"It's just been revoked!"
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out came Pakistan...
at which she shouts in surprise "OOOH thats why theyre called paki's"
I just put my hand to my face and slowly shook from side to side,.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 14:20, closed)
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Don't have children.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 15:27, closed)
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and see only two.
Who else is here? Who have I ignored and forgotten about? Show yourselves!
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 19:51, closed)
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I clicked on that one that Julian Assange posted with 168 replies on it, I was a little surprised that it only had 15 replies.
I took the opportunity to reduce that number further. I'm in much the same boat as you here.
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but it chaps my chuddies that Shambo has me on ignore cause I can't see any of those sparkling & enlightening discussions.
Thankfully neither BD, AB or Rory have chosen ti ignore me.
Yet.
( , Thu 23 Aug 2012, 7:10, closed)
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