Have you added him as a 'friend'?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:38, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

Nah, not yet
although it would make the perving both easier and less weird and stalkerish...
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:40, Reply)

social media
has added a whole new level of complicated to relationships with people.
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:42, Reply)

Meh, I'm trying to justify it
by telling myself that everyone does it. Hell, with my surname I'm easy to find, he's almost certainly searched for me.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:43, Reply)

But that would make it less fun too I'd imagine.
You can add him on Saturday.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:42, Reply)

saturday Monday morning when she is finally able to get out of bed, her poor legs failing her and her crotch red raw
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:45, Reply)

hahahaha

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:47, Reply)

Not on the first date!
bah, why does nobody believe me?!
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:47, Reply)

Because you're frothing at the clopper for him?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:48, Reply)

N- well maybe.
but I still have morals.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:49, Reply)

morals needs.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:50, Reply)

Morals are more important..
as is the decision not to sleep with someone who could potentially mess me about until I have a better idea of whether they will or not.
Also, I don't want him to think I'm easy. Because I'm not. much.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:51, Reply)

it's only because the rest of us
in our arid patches are jealous

(I wish I had not just thought of the phrase arid patch)
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:55, Reply)

It's been the better part of six months
but I'd still rather wait and not sleep with someone who has turned out to be a dickhead than sleep with them straight away and get massively messed about and heartbroken.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:59, Reply)

remind me to do this
if I ever get a date, please
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:00, Reply)

All joking aside.
This is very sensible.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:00, Reply)

I do tend to be, you know.
believe it or not.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:04, Reply)

just don't drink too much!

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:05, Reply)

Halves only
I do not want to make a massive tit of myself.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:07, Reply)

Wise berk, wise.
Do you know where you'll be going for a drink yet? Village pub or poncey wine-bar.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:08, Reply)

If it's a Prosecco Bar, that means he's probably a yuppie and definitely a ponce.

( The Mock TurtIe ™ --- Thinks you are a cunt, on, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:11, Reply)

A couple of the village pubs
handily combine the two. I expect we'll start in the Fighting Cocks, cos it looks like Hogwarts and I like it in there. We're only going out round the village - unless we really hit it off and decide to go and dance like twats in town.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:12, Reply)

Does he live locally?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:16, Reply)

Nah, about five miles away
close enough for me not to feel guilty about the expense if I bung him in to a cab at the end of the night rather than saying he can stay at mine!
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:21, Reply)

So he won't be driving then, so you can get him drunk!

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:22, Reply)

I doubt he'll be driving
the inference was that we were going out for a proper drink. And I do intend to see how much of a lightweight he is whilst trying to remain out of trouble myself...
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:26, Reply)

Is this rugby-playing berk coming out?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:28, Reply)

Christ no
rugby playing berk could drink considerably more than I can now, and would be gleefully lairy about it, too.
I'm a total lightweight now that I don't drink so often, or have so much mass to soak up the booze.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:30, Reply)

You go sister.
Sleeping with someone you actually like on the first date is daft.
(Barry from Eastenders is, despite the words written above, not a woman, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:58, Reply)

Woo, validation!
and from a bloke, no less. Cheers!
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 23:00, Reply)

Probably
Having taken a cheeky peek at some of his photos and had a look at the kind of girl he usually goes for, kind of makes me think we're probably not that compatible even though he is ridiculously cute.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:47, Reply)

peek wank kind of makes me think we're probably not that compatible even though he is ridiculously cute and had another wank, thinking about them, I'm ready.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:49, Reply)

Overly complicated
and a bit weird, frankly.
(berk, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:52, Reply)

enough about me. What about my post?

( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Tue 15 Mar 2011, 22:57, Reply)