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(, Sun 1 Apr 2001, 1:00)
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It's perfectly right to say that even if you dress in a provactive way you do not deserve to be raped. I think we can all agree with that. However, dressing in a certain way will attract attention - some of it unwanted - and this can and will inevitably on occasion lead to trouble.
There is no justification for rape - at all. However, trying to claim the moral high ground by saying 'we should be able to dress as we want' isn't going to stop women being raped.
Your average rapist isn't at home, thumbing through The Guardian saying "Hmm, they do have a point. I'll no longer select my victims according to how they're dressed."
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 10:58, 2 replies, latest was 15 years ago)
be back to the burka, then?
I don't know how much you've read, but in the XVI century a woman would be a slut for showing her ankles (not her chest, though) and was calling for rape if she did it.
Things change, people can be educated, and no one should act with fear and hide what they are to avoid problems.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:11, Reply)
I don't think I can make myself any clearer than that, can I?
However, the object of the entire operation appears to be to change the minds of rapists, who by definition, don't really give a flying fuck about what anyone thinks.
The protest is all very noble, but I can't see it achieving anything.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:23, Reply)
things were worse 500 years ago when women had to be covered completelly, and showing an ankle would be a call for rape. We have improved, why can't we improve some more?
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:28, Reply)
So basically not much changed for 400 years.
Again, I shall repeat, how are you going to change the attitude of rapists?
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:36, Reply)
Things have changed a lot in the last 100 years, then.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:37, Reply)
So by Christmas it'll be acceptable for everyone to wander about in the buff.
Well, that's progress.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:49, Reply)
In some places, it's been acceptable for a while now. Maybe you should read the newspapers.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:50, Reply)
it's not like the rapists are going to see the women's noble protest and decide to change their ways.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:30, Reply)
is for educated people who still thinks it's the woman's fault for wearing slutty dresses.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:36, Reply)
I still don't think them getting their ya yas out is going to do much though. Most people will probably tune in to see some ass.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:48, Reply)
He's more likely a husband or a boyfriend or a date who won't take no for an answer.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:16, Reply)
And they don't care how you're dressed, they just go for it.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:18, Reply)
telling women that if they dress slutty they'll be raped.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:28, Reply)
but it could stop that "you deserve it" thought on society when a rape happens.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:38, Reply)
However dressing in a certain way can be a contributing factor. To not see that would be naive.
However, I shall repeat, that does not justify rape.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:53, Reply)
is moved by the occassion, as Kitty said. I've dressed as a slut many times and never been raped, as I was never on my own. Many women walking on their own and wearing thick winter clothes have been raped though.
(, Thu 9 Jun 2011, 11:59, Reply)
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