That's as maybe
My point is that 23 is far too young to rule out meeting someone who does want a family with him
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 14:58, 1 reply, 15 years ago)

I'm just a bit freaked out, as a few friends of mine are popping out babies already!

( Agnostic Antichrist Baltimora, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:00, Reply)

they're too young
my mates are all turning 30 (some older) and only a few of them have kids, and that's recent

you just live in the poverty stricken north where people have to burn children to survive the harsh winters.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:02, Reply)

It happens
It's not a race.
( Kroney, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:03, Reply)

I was disturbed when my friends starting laying too
I look at it this way; if you want to cut your young, carefree years off in your early 20s, that's your lookout
(Darth Foxtrot A one-man army dedicated to making fetch happen, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:03, Reply)

There is the counter arguement
that having kids early in life means you're not too old and decrepit to enjoy your life once they've fucked off from the nest. I have an acquaintance who had his kids at 17. So by his mid thirties he was enjoying his life again, with the benefit of being a bit wiser as a result.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:30, Reply)

I'm pretty sure breeding is over rated
anyway
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:08, Reply)

this should be very good birth control
this is 2011, as your friends have kids now you're going to watch them struggle with all aspects of their life, ignoring the fact that once you have a kid you make all obstacles far worse than they ever were
( Lisette von Falcon, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 15:16, Reply)