No easy way though is there?
I understand what you say about the vagueness. You want to know WHAT EXACTLY the problem was?
(Set your faces to Stunned Bigly, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:08, 1 reply, 14 years ago)

The problems all seem to be stuff that I did for sound, logical reasons for the sake of the relationship, though.
That's what boggles my mind. Like staying in a job to ensure we had money to pay the bills whilst she was jumping from dead end job to dead end job. Apparently I should have been taking risks in changing jobs in a period of high unemployment and relentless job cuts.
( Kroney, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:11, Reply)

that's just an excuse, though
surely. Sometimes there aren't firm reasons
( Citizen Cavy Admires your passion for conformity, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:12, Reply)

^this
People make shit like that up, rather than say I fell out of love with you or I don't fancy you anymore. It hurts less but leaves you wondering what happened.
(Set your faces to Stunned Bigly, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:15, Reply)

Mine gave the mind boggling reason that I was "too nice."
Then a few months later complained to me about what an unreasonable twat her new bloke was. Fucking cheek.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:15, Reply)

She's an unreasonable headcase
next question.
(berk, Fri 6 Jan 2012, 12:19, Reply)