I did, and it was wonderful.
I left her mother with a copy of my proposed new arrangement. She doesn't like it but this was expected. I think she'll agree to some of it - in fact she will have no choice.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:38, 1 reply, 13 years ago)

Does she have any latitude to disagree with any of it, or do you have her over the proverbial barrel?
Good news anyway.
(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:38, Reply)

Her principal objection is 'you can't afford to feed her properly'.
It's pretty pathetic, rather desperate and I suspect she knows it.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:40, Reply)

What proposed new arrangement is it?

( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:42, Reply)

Proposed:
1. overnight stays with me every other weekend
2. my visits not to be at her house (already happening)
3. a week's hol in the summer, a few days at Xmas and a bank hol
4. time with visits to be increased from 3 to 8 hours weekly

Nothing outrageous I think
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:47, Reply)

\o/
Made up for you mate, cracking news.
( The Light in Chains don't touch the Pope's boner, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:51, Reply)

Let's see what happens eh...

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:55, Reply)

Definitely not in any way unreasonable, hope it works out
People that use their kids to get at ex-partners are the lowest of the low IMO, sadly there seems to be a lot of it.
(localboy purveyor of pisspoor puns, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:55, Reply)

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:42, Reply)

Absolutely

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:43, Reply)

Fucksake. She really is desperate.
All moving in the right direction by the sounds of it. Excellent news.
(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Mon 10 Sep 2012, 10:49, Reply)