My kid told me mummy's friend Craig stayed in her room
and when we were leaving her flat I saw his name come up on her phone before she answered it and was all 'yeah she'll be gone in a minute'. Also my kid told me that mummy had told her that if Ben gets angry they may have to move.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:10, 4 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

Oof.
That is not good.
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:11, Reply)

No it really isn't.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:12, Reply)

If she gets chucked out of the house maybe she'll move in with you and then it'll be like a sitcom.

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:13, Reply)

*shudders*

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:15, Reply)

How the piss has she got custody if she can't even keep her legs together enough to maintain a roof over your kids head?

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:15, Reply)

She's a decent mother really, just a frightful human being in all other regards

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:17, Reply)

Like my ex wife then.

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:19, Reply)

And my soon to be ex wife.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:21, Reply)

WOMEN, EH?

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:23, Reply)

Can't live with 'em.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:31, Reply)

YOU CAN KILL THEM WITH HAMMERS AS TOLD TO BY GOD THOUGH
So it's not all bad
( sporters I’m sincerely gratitude to you, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:31, Reply)

hahaha.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:34, Reply)

lol

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:11, Reply)

Sounds dodgy

( Peej, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:12, Reply)

Yup, my kid's behaviour is suffering already

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:14, Reply)

derailleur?

( Peej, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:15, Reply)

Are you going to talk to your ex about it?

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:15, Reply)

I don't think it's my place to do so.
I can talk about the kid's behaviour but her relationships are none of my business really.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:16, Reply)

Perhaps if this is positioned as
'It's not my business and don't want to get involved, but I'm concerned about the impact on my kid. I'm not going to say anything to [current bf] but where would you take her if he chucked you out?'
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:18, Reply)

^

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:19, Reply)

That sounds OK actually

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:20, Reply)

I would keep well fucking out of it.
You haven't exactly got proof have you?
(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:21, Reply)

^ non parent right here ladies & gentlemen ^

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)

^Relationship advice from someone getting divorced up there^

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)

More responsible parenting advice.
Get on with some work you workshy good for nothing.
( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:29, Reply)

I'm on a conference call with managers playing pass the buck.

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:33, Reply)

I think I might have a look at the bbc website.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:35, Reply)

You can read about why they're passing the buck.

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:36, Reply)

^ This
The more involved you are, the more likely she'll be to lash out at you when it all goes tits up for her.
( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:23, Reply)

Make it 100% about your daughter's wellbeing.
Mummy bringing home a new boyfriend regularly is something you might have to talk to your kid about separately if it's affecting her behaviour.
( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)

Yep, and you don't want to go back to the way it was.

(PsychoChomp, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:18, Reply)

Depends, if it's going to result in your daughter being chucked out of her home I think you've got a right to voice your concerns about that.

( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:18, Reply)

^ This ^

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:21, Reply)

It's a tough call
especially as she's being OK with me for the first time in 5 years and I really don't want to jeopardise that
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:21, Reply)

to jeopardise that her to beat the shit out of me again




tee hee
( hartley hare Just some prick who thinks it doesn't apply to him, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:22, Reply)

tee - but also, hee.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:23, Reply)

Document and record conversations if need be.
She can't get the arse on if you're just trying to make sure your kid is alright.
( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:24, Reply)

She could get the arse on about literally anything.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:26, Reply)

b3ta.com/questions/offtopic/post1954247
( BraynDedd Natasha Kaplinsky's labia majora, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:28, Reply)

who's Ben?`
He doesn't sound very gentle
( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:25, Reply)

the guy she's been with for about 3 years

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:27, Reply)

oh dear...not nice at all

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Tue 7 May 2013, 11:29, Reply)