I've not met him.
If neither if them want to save the marriage, why would they bother with counselling? Or is this one of those things you have to go through to persuade whoever the relevant body is that the divorce is legit?
( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Mon 13 May 2013, 13:16, 2 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

more likely to persuade the court that you've acted reasonably when it comes to making a determination and awarding costs
in my cynical view
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:23, Reply)

so in who's favour does it work? batty boy or his lesbians wife?

( Windy Pig I'm naturally quite suspicious about the moon., Mon 13 May 2013, 13:27, Reply)

The lawyers'

( tangledupinblue hairy badge with moving eyes, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:29, Reply)

^^^^^^^^

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:38, Reply)

depends what happens
i say go with a good grace, keep a careful record of what is discussed, then if nothing has changed after about 2 more sessions, explain carefully and rationally, with input from solicitor where required, that it is NOT WORKING YOU STUPID IRRATIONAL BITCH.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:31, Reply)

This is the point.
They were going for these sessions before the decision to bin the marriage was taken - now it has been, the sessions are completely pointless especially as they both now agree they want out.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:39, Reply)

Unless his wife has decided to string him along for another year @ £4K pcm pocket money

(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Mon 13 May 2013, 13:49, Reply)

Nah he won't have it, he's not stupid (despite actually looking like a mong-browed Slav)

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 13 May 2013, 13:52, Reply)

Hmm well we'll see what her solicitor says but I'm imagining the words 'in the manner to which she is accustomed' featuring prominently

(Reverend Fister "a disciplined fuckwit", Mon 13 May 2013, 13:54, Reply)

Pah, she owns their flat outright.

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 13 May 2013, 14:04, Reply)