She's somehow found out I've spent £2.2k on a sofa. Judge might not like that...

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:54, 5 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

You going full on court settlement?
In which case, claim half the house.
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:55, Reply)

Or at the very least make her realise how fucking lucky she is that you're not!

( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:58, Reply)

Nah. Micro's domestic stability is key. Ain't touching even any beneficial interest on the place that may be due. Given there is no mortgage it means micro will always have a roof over her head.

( Fucking hell Jeff I am not a robot, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:58, Reply)

But she could have two of them.
If she downsized and you bought somewhere.

Or are you concerned that doing that will encourage her to fuck off north of the border?
( JeffTheDogFucker Can you dig it?, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:59, Reply)

Your ex wife will need very little from you then

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 22:00, Reply)

As she would if she lived with you and not someone who expects her parents and her ex to give her a living
I'm not disputing what you're saying at all, but she should realise that 99% of people wouldn't agree to what you are agreeing to accept.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 22:06, Reply)

Quick take it back and get something shit

( Naked Ape call me Caitlyn, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:55, Reply)

You need a sofa. Who's to say what's reasonable?

(Set your faces to Stunned Bigly, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:56, Reply)

Ask them whether they'd prefer your flat was a death trap for when micro visits.

( b3th Not shit. Not mod., Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:57, Reply)

Ask the solicitor - don't make yourself miserable speculating
If he thinks it's a problem, then listen. Personally I'd be surprised if a reasonable/cheap hotel were any sort of a problem. You're divorcing, not dying, and a court would see that.
( rachelswipe with a fork, Mon 12 Aug 2013, 21:57, Reply)