Kick them both out
then throw his clothes out the window along with all his belongings, pray for rain and then go to the pub.

What a bastard...not only being unfaithful but bringing them back!

You deserve better.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:00, 1 reply, 16 years ago)

That was my initial thought
but as she seems calm enough to leave them on the floor and tell us about it instead of tearing him a new one I think there may be some backstory...
If I'm wrong and you're massively upset and pissed off you have my apologies.
(Paolo Nutini's Bikini Better than Frederick Fleet's optometrist, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:04, Reply)

Maybe that's shock
I think I'd be in shock...for about five minutes and then I'd tear them both a new one or two.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:11, Reply)

You'd last a whole five minutes?
If I woke up to find my mrs with someone else, i'd have them both out in about 30 seconds.
(Bazongaloid, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:23, Reply)

It would be five minutes
because I'd be pinching myself just to make sure I was awake and not hallucinating.

Then the very large stick would come out.
( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:27, Reply)

I am completely devastated
But what the hell do I do/say? Its just too weird to deal with at the moment. Cant really believe its happened. Plus all our friends are here so I cant really scream at him for being bummed.
(i should have joined myspace, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:33, Reply)

Oh. Shit. I'm sorry.
In that case you've got a shedload of self restraint. A quick "outside - now" followed by an open-air bollocking/questioning might be the best idea. If your friends know what went on I'm sure they'll understand.
Then maybe take chickenlady's advice.
(Paolo Nutini's Bikini Better than Frederick Fleet's optometrist, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 13:51, Reply)

Was he definitely the reciever?
Because that's a bit weird.
(Bazongaloid, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 14:32, Reply)

But in response to your initialy question
i.e. what do you do? I would have it out with him right now regardless of who is there. If he thought he might be gay while being in a straight relationship there are ways and means of dealing with the situation, bringing home a bloke to your girlfriends place is not the way to deal with it so make sure everyone knows what a cunt he is. Gay or Straight, cheating is cheating so tell him to fuck right off.
(Bazongaloid, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 14:35, Reply)

^^This

( chickenlady b3ta's very own Elizabeth Taylor, Sat 24 Oct 2009, 18:13, Reply)