no!!
bring it on - you are a woman of obvious good sense and I will bow to your knowledge of such matters. I'm only 40 and have had a fairly unsheltered existence. Never had my heart broken like this though.
(Purpledoris I've got afeckin' job, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:28, 2 replies, latest was 16 years ago)

I am?
Good lord - you really are in a bad way.
I'm not lucky enough to have loved anyone enough for me to end up with a broken heart.
I like Becky's advice to just go with it for now - react how you want, do what you want. Don't worry too much about what happens after that.
( thealternativefact, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:43, Reply)

Cheers honey
I think it's just the going from 5 to 7 nights alone that scares me.
(Purpledoris I've got afeckin' job, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:52, Reply)

You don't have to be alone.
I'm single but I make sure I have at least two afternoons or evenings a week where a friend and I meet up. I have to force myself to do it else I just get lazy, but it really helps keep you fresh.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:59, Reply)

This is a good plan
I've been doing this as well.
( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 23:04, Reply)

*high-fives*
King of the Hill, and bed.
( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 23:06, Reply)

good advice
but I really like to have someone to tslk to whilst I'm doing jobs around the house else they just don't get done!
(Purpledoris I've got afeckin' job, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 23:25, Reply)

Put some music on and shake your booty while you chore.

( Noeli overtheshoulderboulderholderthingstraplatchboobs, Tue 13 Apr 2010, 6:10, Reply)

Don't listen to the mad curly haired lady!
Any words of encouragement and the next thing you know she'll be inviting herself to stay and baking things for you.

Oh, hang on... no, carry on!
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:45, Reply)

hey
I could live with that!!
(Purpledoris I've got afeckin' job, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:52, Reply)

Technically
We invited her to stay, but the rest is all true.
( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:53, Reply)

But her cinnamon spirally things made it all worthwhile

( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:55, Reply)

:)

( thealternativefact, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:56, Reply)

*flex*
:D
( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:56, Reply)

*Washes dishes*

( Davros' Granddad a voice of calm reason in a world of spastics., Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:57, Reply)

Oh you two...
carry on.
( thealternativefact, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:59, Reply)

When should I expect her?

(Purpledoris I've got afeckin' job, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 22:59, Reply)

When you least expect it!
There should be a Clendrix lamp you could shine into the sky when you're sad and she would turn up with confectionary and filthy humour.
( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 23:03, Reply)

Ooh!
I must sort out a funky cape and boots.
( thealternativefact, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 23:06, Reply)

That would be more mint
than a million minty things.
( Boss Keloid Got your mother's maiden name tattooed on my arm, Mon 12 Apr 2010, 23:08, Reply)